During our "tong sui" dinner - we were going through the AU matter.

When UMM voiced out some of the details of why SMK and Din need to be in China, SMK was irritated and abruptly said ... "Don't interpret !!! I am not asking you"..

UMM was taken aback by this remark ! It is as though that UMM is trying to stop her from going to China.

It is just a discussion and flowing of thoughts, and a deep concern for SMK.

UMM understands that SMK has a very tight schedule before leaving to NZ and also to arrange the 2nd & 3rd shipments and SMK presence in China is very important.

UMM should not be worrying too much cos' God is there to protect and keep SMK from all harms.

Just pray for God's protection upon her while she is there...

Wedding ring box

As we got out from Isetan, KLCC lower ground floor, we saw a shop that sells a very beatiful glittering mirrors boxes.

One of the box shaped of a love.

SMK said, "Next time you know where to buy boxes" ...

Intimacy moment

This afternoon, after SMK had done her hair and after UMM finished some AU emails - we spent the evening relaxing alone.

We have not been pak toh for some time.

SMK said she need to go for a bath before zzz, actually she went to change into a very sexy zzz outfit !!!

When she came out, wow !! wow !! so sexy and beautiful !!!

A silky short dress, a purple color bra that tight around her neck.

We were suppose to take a rest but with such beautiful and sexy SMK and hunky UMM ... how to sleep lar ... hahaha.

We spent another 3 hours or so loving and caress each other.

It is good that a couple should spent their own intimacy time away from kids + office works + house works.

Parent object to NZ

As both of us visit SMK family, especially to give SMK mom belated birthday gift, SMK finally told her mom about her NZ matters.

The parent objected strongly about it.

Main concern of course - financial.

SMK mom asked UMM whether UMM is serious about SMK in his relationship. SMK asked her mom to list out conditions to marry SMK.

SMK mom said that she doesn't have any condition, such a kind mother in law ... hahaha..

SMK mom worried about leaving UMM here alone while SMK is in NZ with kids. SMK mom asked SMK whether she ever consider UMM matter ... hahaha

Herb

UMM mission for the morning .... boil the menstrual herb for SMK ... hahaha..

Wow ... needs 3 hours to boil it, longer than my "heaty soup" .. hahahaha

Hmmm ... smell very "herby" .. hahaha.

Fasting - day 3

This morning as prayed in tongue, the language is so much different from my usual. The language just flowing and flowing as though I am speaking a native language.

Today a bit tiring and heart beat seemed to be beating quite fast, had a bit of headche.
Around 3 pm, I was wondering whether I be able to finish through the 40 days or not.

Anyway, the reason and the purpose kept me going.

Anyway - by the time I am writing this entry, I feel ok.

Women Herbs and Ginseng

Bought some ginseng as a birthday gift to SMK mom which was on 17 Nov.

While waiting for the ginseng to be grind - UMM browse through some of the medicine and saw what UMM been looking for .... the herb for women menstrual period !!!

The shopkeeper must be guessing why a man look for such stuff... hahaha

Fasting #1

Started out with praying for the Blood of Christ to cover me + SMK.

Declaring the name of Christ.

Putting on the full armour of God.

Fasting

After hearing the testimony of a pastor from Uganda, UMM decided to fast alone.

UMM loved to have SMK fast together but due to her work and low blood pressure - better not. Anyway, UMM fasting also sanctify her as well.

Alan Tam Concert

SMK received 2 tickets for the Alan Tam Concert in Stadium Bukit Jalil.

When UMM went to collect the tickets and asked whether UMM home Astro name is listed ? The staffs said that it is not for everyone.

SMK name was picked up through random selection - wow ... so lucky !!

candle light cake

UMM wanted to surprise SMK when she is back from her "leng-leng" hair saloon.

Bought a piece of blackberry cake + 1 candle + 1 white grape sparkling, rushed back, turn on aircond, play her favourite Kenny G music, pushed out the sofa and dimmed the light.

Just an appetizer before taking her out for a dinner.

Anyway things turned upside down when SMK found that the emails were still in "draft"... got her upset.

At the end, we just have instant noodles.

It can be UP and down in just less than 2 minutes.

One moment we are "darling-darling" and another moment we are in "hush-hush" moment.

Is our emotions is so governed by ISO, HACCP or GMP ? If UMM doesn't do this or too slow to do this - then UMM instantly been issued a warning letter from the management ?

Hmmm ... don't know when UMM gets fired ??!!!!

i love u

What a wonderful + sweetest words that came out from SMK today as UMM carried her and put her on the living room sofa ..... "I love you" !!!!!

57KG

57KG ..... Sorry .... it is SMK body weight, not the AU weight lar !!!! Hahahaha

Sometimes, UMM get a bit "sensitive" when hear the word KG .. hahahaha...

SMK said that she managed to maintain at 57kg due to overworked (PM + AU matters).

UMM prayed that - great + super abundance of harvesting shall come from all sowing that been done.

AU - Pangkor Trip cancel

SMK cancelled her Pangkor trip for the 2nd time again, due to AU matters.

1st time - Documents preparation

2nd time - Singapore Intemediary comes down.

AU Siao Lang #2

We get heated up by this siao lang #2 !!

UMM prayed to God .... "God we shall not be bullied by the pagan siao lang !! We are the children of the Almighty God, no one shall take advantage of your children. Send Your mighty army and destroy these evil ppl".

Why UMM prayed at such, cos I remembered in the Bible where this type of incident happened before and God take vengence by HIS own hands.

UMM + SMK memory lane

Hmmmm ..... as I entering blog event, I read some of our memory lane events, thru' them, I am thankful to God on how HE has led both of us.

How our relationship blossom and turned into love. Thru' these journey, we met a lots of struggles, hurts, pain, joy, laughters, tears, misunderstandings, etc .... a journey that we need to past thru'.

UMM thanked God that it is HE who has brought us thru' the storms and HIS mercy and love for us. Without HIM, it is not possible for us to be together.

Tho' there will be a long journey for both of us to walk, with HIS help and HIS guidance - UMM + SMK will overcome any weather that to be.

God bless.

Double Earphones

SMK nowadays had her both ears plugged with handphones kits ... hahaha

If God created a human with 4 ears, think SMK will plug them all !!!

The AU has really kept both of us "on call" all the time.

send her home

We drove to KLCC to meet with a friend cum customer that both of us know. As a coutesy, we want to belanja him back.

As we walking out of the hall, SMK suddenly said, "UMM - go drive to the restaurant yourself, where else I follow his car"

Huhhh ????

Off course I know the customer doesn't know how to get to the restaurant, off course I know he is not from here - but please at least have the courtesy to share with UMM the idea 1st before making such decision. Further more this customer knows about our relationship as husband/wife.

When reaching the restaurant, my spoon & fork was placed opposite of SMK, away from them ... what is happening here ????

Never mind ... UMM thought, but when SMK start talking and her hand touching the customer arms and the customer react back ..... what is this ???? ...

At the end of the dinner, with a soft and polite voice, UMM told the customer to send her back home ...

Anyway, in the end UMM send SMK back.

In the car, SMK shouted at UMM for the reaction. That next time UMM doesn't need to follow her for business meal. This is not a business dinner, this customer knows about our relationship.

Why UMM reacted that way ??

Because UMM is jealous, UMM loves SMK too much, cares for her and don't want to loose her !!!

Before going to SMK's house, UMM opened the email - more not so good news.

UMM quickly sms Bible verse to encourage SMK, the story in the Book of Judges about how the Medianites army trying to attack Gideon, but as long God is with Gideon - he will be saved.

When UMM reached SMK house, she already doing the AU IMFPA matter, UMM was worried + scared + concerned.

How would she react when she found out about the email news ???

750KG no good news

Later in the afternoon, SMK received a call that the 750KG deal is not really successful yet cos' the person signed the NCND but no LOI !!!!

Wat lau !!!!

UMM was very sad and dissapointed. and more concern and worried for SMK especially the financial part.

That night, UMM quickly follow up with some of the web prospects that have called for enquiry, managed to get one sale - just enough to pay for the blood test $$ + the Shogun $$ expenses.

Just hope that SMK is willing to accept the $$.

Seeing her struggling these few weeks with AU really worried UMM.

Blood test

SMK picked up UMM for the blood test and to see doctor.

SMK paid for the blood test package which cost RM720 (package of 4x blood test). While guiding me, SMK said, "ah kong ..... before married ...hahahha"

750KG celebration

While going for her winter clothing shopping, SMK wants to celebrate for the 750KG success - so we went to shogun.

Even though UMM wants to pay for it, but SMK insist that she paid for it.

Went back home, intend to continue with AU works, but due to UMM extreme legs pain, had to cut short. SMK drove UMM back and buy some chinese medicine.

750KG taker

A great news that the 750KG was NCND by a buyer that we recommended. SMK was so happy !!!

SMK offered to give a RM5K for UMM to buy air ticket.

UMM refused the offer as UMM knew that SMK need to accumulate as much $$ as possible for the NZ.

Always thankful for her kindness.

Flower uncle and auntie

Since today also UMM uncle & auntie birthdays, SMK took UMM to buy gifts for them.

We chose 2 pots of firely red plants for them.

UMM mother birthday gift

3 months ago, SMK was in Sabah, SMK bought back some big natural pearl necklaces.

For herself, she only wear the small size pearl necklace and bracelt.

Today - SMK came to UMM house and gave to my mom for her birthday !!

She wear the pearl necklace on my mom. And wow ..!! my mom looks younger and bright ... hahaha.

Unselfishness, selfless and kind heart are always in SMK. She appreciate & give the best to others, while moderating her self in all things.

God bless you.

AU Dato and partners

UMM thnaked God that SMK was present during the AU meeting with the Dato's groups.

A groups of so called "expertise" came in (3 ppl) and start to talk about they know, the requirements, the methods, etc ...

SMK listened patiently to them, and start to analyze and break down part-by-part until they realized and said that their ways are traditional .... hahaha.

Then came another man, his method is what we want but his presentation is "one ketul - ketul" ... SMK as usual ask more and analyze for him. While talking with the 4th man, UMM observed that the other 3 ppl, including myself were "blur-blur" but trying our best to understand ... hahaha...

At the end of the discussion, SMK conclude the meeting by sharing the end result to all in point format. OoooOOoo .... now we all understand ... hahahaha.

Just a thought 01

The only time UMM has time to flip thru' newspaper is while in toilet.




This morning grabbed my attention of a comic date last weekends.

As I read the comic, it reflected how a normal and traditional family were brought up.

UMM will be still in that situation if not SMK teaches me about sharing family chores, techniques to do household and other stuffs.

All these years, UMM lived a life of too much of simplicity, self-care, "not bother" attitude. Since the day UMM's heart "jump" into SMK - life has been changing.

Even at times, UMM do get back into "old" attitude or mindset, SMK be there to re-align. Sometimes, it causes SMK to be worried, angry, upset, frustrated and fed up ... yet with God's grace and mercy, we were able to reconciled and pull them thru'.... although UMM admits that I still do get "off-track" now & then .... hahahaha.

International G Mandate

A proud day for SMK - A Mandate Letter !!

khau by AU miner

Wow !!! My dearest wife SMK really "keng-chau" !! Just on Messenger also people want to "khau" her !!!

Today, a seller of AU mine owner seemed to "indicates" his intention by calling her handphone the moment Messenger is off ... and some more called twice !!

SMK didn't answer the call.

UMM was on the other phone line, hearing the phone rings ..

Hmmm ... my dear wife really atrracts alot of bees, cos' she is really really very attractive lar !!!

Husband

As UMM sat down on a sofa, taking a rest, UMM prayed to God and asked God ....

"Lord, teach + make me a husband"

Not trying to be a good husband or anything but rather be a husband. Just what in the Bible ...

"Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her" - Ephesians 5:25.

A godly husband is what UMM asked from the Lord.

The last few days, UMM + SMK have been working very late + hard for the AU matters.

Like yesterday, we worked so hard that UMM needs to stay overnite at SMK's place and SMK woke UMM up at 06:47 am cos the AU's seller is online.

SMK also in a very tight schedule as she needs to be out to Ipoh around 7:30 am. Everything was so in a rush and hectic.

SMK took less than 1 minute to change into working clothings .. the beautiful all black color dress + black color long pant.

As UMM continue to monitor the AU matters at home, SMK will constant on phone to instruct and assist.

The moment was tense as we need to deal both the "grumpy" seller's side and "demanding" buyer's side.

Anyway, SMK constantly reminding + cautious UMM not to get too addicted with the AU matters.

UMM is not and won't get addicted with it. The purpose is very clear. It is a blessing from God, a blessing for UMM + SMK to:
1) Bless SMK with a new house in NZ (paid fully in cash)
2) Bless SMK that she doesn't need to constantly worried + susah + concerned with finances for matters pertaining to NZ
3) Bless UMM + SMK marriage
4) Bless PCMC
5) Bless God's ministry ... e.g. E.E
6) Bless both of family members whom had given us care + concern + love in our years of growing up.

Lord, thank You for being with us. Our life's journey we commit unto You. Amen

Jealous Skype

Hmmm ... not a very pleasant moment for UMM as UMM watched how enjoyable SMK having a skype conversation with Mr. David from AU.

Talk business - ok but when share personal details, UMM felt jealous liao.

This jealous is good in a sense that it show that someone is concern + cares + "kang cheong" with someone.

If someone does not have feeling, then it is just a normal non-committed kind of relationship.

UMM prayed that let this jealousy be a godly kind and not of evil and malicious.

Just like in the Bible when God is jealous with his peoples when they turned away and worship idols.

SMK darling, my jealousy is of love and not trying to tied you down or control you. If you ever have the feeling that UMM try to control you, please forgive me. Please share with me. Thnak you darling.

nephews and UMM nieces

SMK thought a lot and very far, UMM meant very, verrrrryyyy far !!

The house that we are going to buy in NZ, SMK also planned to use it for her nephews and also UMM's nieces when they grow up and when they decided to study in NZ.

So kind hearted & really selfless in all her thoughts and plans.

Love

Before laying down to zzzzz ..... SMK sms and wish UMM goodnight and ended with the word ..." with love fr SMK" !!! Wow !!!

Throughout our years of together, this is the 2nd time that SMK expressed her "love" to UMM. For some, this is just a norm, but for UMM they are so precious !!!

Hope that SMK could always ends it with such "love" hehehe...

Cooking with L

This is the 2nd time that Lyn helped UMM to prepared dinners !!

The 1st was sweet potato porridge (chau-tar), so redo the 2nd time. Afraid that it will get chau-tar, UMM kepts on stirring until the whole porridge turn into orangy color ... hahaha.

The 2nd time - fried rice. Lyn helped to fried the eggs. Ooo yah, Lyn made the omellette for the previous dinner.

A small step for a giant breakthrough .....

Did I mentioned .... great food & recipes ... hahaha