Worst negotiation

Yesterday nite within 15 minutes of conversation - U Mer Mer given out a contract that costs RM1,800 x 2 = RM3,600 !!! And it was over some cherries, vegetables, kim chi .... hahaha

U Mer Mer thought that nite time Su Mor Kong's brain stop working liao but more powerful !!

This morning at breakfast, kena one more time, this time jia-lat !!! RM18,000 !!!!

This time U Mer MEr really need to eat grass now and drink it's own milk !!!! Hahahaha..

Never underestimate Su Mor Kong's negotiation power !!! Very kau-lat ... day or nite !!! hahaha

Food - Dried Vacuum Vege

Taste vey nice ... expensive lar ..Sin$7.00 = RM17.50 !!!!! Wow ....

It was not the price that matters most but of Su Mor Kong thoughtfulness and loving heart. In the midst of her busyness and tight schedules - she remembers U Mer Mer.

Su Mor Kong shared her passion & her love unconditionally. Imagined ... she needs to walked for 30 minutes to and fro MRT everyday. Not an easy things, especially when you need to carry things along.

Thank you Su Mor Kong !!!

Prayer - God will make a way

Tonight, before you call me, I was online with another church friend. He shared about his life testimony of how he overcame the deep problems he faced a few years back. He tried his own way of dealing with the problems. The more he tried the more difficult it was until one day, he decided to surrender eveything and trust God. He continue to focus on God's goodness & promises in the Bible, praying everyday with understanding & "in tongue" and praising God with songs.

As we shared each other burden, this song came about into our online chat. May this song also brings you nearer to God and trusting HIS way rather than your way.

verse
God will make a way
Where there seems to be no way
He works in ways we cannot see
He will make a way for me

verse 2
He will be my guide
Hold me closely to His side
With love and strength
for each new day
He will make a way
He will make a way

chorus
By a roadway in the wilderness
He'll lead me
And rivers in the desert will I see
Heaven and earth will fade
But His Word will still remain
He will do something new today

As we worship HIM with the song, please read also Psam 34.

May you pray these aloud:

Dear Lord Jesus
TheName above all names
I surrender my life to you
You are the King of my life now and forever

I confess, "for whoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved" and here I possess know-so salvation, for I have called upon the name of the Lord.

I confess, "the Lord will give streangth unto His people, the Lord will bless His people with peace." and I possess daily strength and abundance of peace.

I confess, "for with God nothing shall be impossible", I possess imposibbilities becoming realities, for I am linked up with God by divine birth.

I confess, "as far as the east is from the west, so far had HE removed our trangressions from us", I possess the assurance that my sins are removed far from me.

Hallelujah. In Jesus' name.
AMEN!!

Su Mor KOng - Trust & Obey God as Noah did, as Isaac did, as Abraham did, as Joseph did ... and now as you do....

Sleep early - Su Mor Kong

Su Mor Kong needs to sleep early, around 10:00 pm.




If Su Mor Kong had enough sleep, she will looks like this:




If Su Mor Kong did not have enough sleep, she will looks like this:



If Su Mor Kong really, really, really did not get enough sleep, she will looks like this:

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Why no photo ?!

U Mer Mer does not dare to imagine !!! takut lor ..... does not want to wait to find out !!! Hahaha. .... like the famous tagline by The Incredible Hulk "You don't like it when I am angry !!" or by Phua Chu Kang, "Don't play play".

Her business is very demanding & requires instant responses. She needs to have enough rest so that she be alert at all time. The amount of workloads and attentions require from her alone.

"Chia-U" Su Mor Kong !!!

Timing so 'chun' - Books

After finishing the books on "Purpose Driven Life", "Fasting & Praying", "The Reality of Spiritual WarFare", "The Covenant"

Now U Mer Mer has 2 new books shared by Su Mor Kong ... talking about timing ! Just 2 days ago, U Mer Mer was looking for new books to read ..... and now I got 2 new books !!
How did Su Mor Kong knows I need books to read?!!!

Another thing was that when I about to leave my house to meet her, I also search my book shelf looking for books to pass to her but could not find one that is suitable. Then I think .. if I can't feed her mind, I can feed her stomach ..... Secret Recipe's cake... hahaha.

When she gave me the books yesterday night, I felt so unbelievable that I really lost words to express myself. If I could recall, my 1st reaction was 'lern kah hong' (weak feet) .. hahaha ..

My mind was jumbled up with astonishments that I '"forgot" to express how happy & thrill and surprised that the timing was so 'chun' !!! man !! .... hahaha I could not believe it !!

As I looked back, I realized that whenever I am with her, I really 'lost myself' hahaha ... Just too happy to be around her, so happy to see her, so happy that words get stuck-2, so many things to say but jammed up at the mind 'bottle-neck' - she always said that U Mer Mer very blur-2 .. hahahaha...

Sometimes, Su Mor Kong wondering whether U Mer Mer is telling the truth or not ... hahahaha
So far U Mer Mer has not been lying, it's just that U Mer Mer need extra time to recall & reorganize his thoughts - slow & short memory.

# Isn't God great ?!! He knows our every needs and His timing is never off-key ... hahaha.

Su Mor Kong Wallpaper

Day time & nite time .... I don't know which is more 'thrill" hahaha

Another hard-goodbye

Received a SMS from Su Mor Kong that she can't access the picture I MMS her, need to wait till she is back and at the mean while .. asking me to enjoy her 'torturing' ...

She is outstation again, I think. Wow !! She indeed a super-woman !! Just got back from Singapore a few hours ago and now ....

It's another hard-goodbye for U Mer Mer again and it's not an easy one for U Mer Mer .. but for me, the most important thing is that Su Mor Kong knows how to take care of herself, especially her health.

Su Mor Kong, if you are able to access this blog while you are in Johor .... REMEMBER TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR HEALTH !!!! This is not a request but a command !!! hahahaha..

Hard to say goodbye

It was hard when I sent Su Mor Kong to the bus station on May 20th afternoon.

Bye - Bye - Bye - Bye ......

HUGE

Thank you Su Mor Kong ...


When Su Mor Kong MMS this photo to me, I was wondering which part of this man that is so huge that she was trying to show me !!??

Ooooo ... now I can see clearly now ... yah ... so HUGE !!! .. hahahaha

Books Mars and Venus

A Quick recall

The 1st time when Su Mor Kong went to nite market, she was 'lectured' by the vegetable seller on how to choose and pick good quality lady fingers. The table had been turn around - from a trainer to a student ... hahaha .. at least that seller did not charge Su Mor Kong for consultancy fees ... hahaha. Each time when U Mer Mer look or eat lady fingers - remind of Su Mor Kong .. hahaha.
She still can't differentiate between the good and average and the bad lady fingers ... for me they all look the same .. hahaha.

Su Mor Kong loves cakes where else U Mer Mer doesn't fancy cakes except a few types like the pandan cake, fruits cake and ice-cream cakes.

One of her favourite shop is Secret Recipe !!

There was one time, she sneaked out with her staff and ate cakes and then sms to U Mer Mer telling how nice the taste was ... making U Mer Mer 'lau nuah" (salivating) hahahaha.. At that time, Su Mor Kong has not learn how to use MMS yet, so saliva dripping not so bad .. hehehe. DOn't have the picture to enhance the salivating .. hahaha.


Another of her favourite fast food is the Domino's Pizza !! She would buy 2 boxes and eat in her car with her 3 lovely bodyguards !! Aiyoh ... no chance to reach home.

Next time should anyone ever ask her to buy, make sure you go together with her - very risky order ... hahahaha.


Su Mor Kong - remember your 'eyeing my every move & action' MMS? hahaha ... I did attend the class on that nite ... hehehe.


Here is a book for you - to counter/ replace the book 'why women worry?'.

Our Book

BTW, just received 'instruction' from Su Mor Kong not to SMS her due to the inconveniences.

What is love?

It's hard when you really love someone.

Going back home

At 12:00 pm today, U MEr MEr went with some friends to visit 2 sick people.

One was hospitalized after fainted in toilet cum cancer in his body. We prayed for this person and while praying, the presence of the Holy Spirit was very strong.

Then we went to visit another elderly lady (age 80+) in another hospital. She had to be spoonfeed with liquid medicine. According to her daughter, to finish a cup of 15-20 ml of medicine, took her mom 1/2 hour. The amount of time and attention and care is very long.

As U Mer Mer looked at this old auntie, a sudden love flow into U Mer Mer heart.

"Lord, I want to take care of Su Mor Kong till she is very, very old age. No matter what, doesn't want to leave her alone.", U Mer Mer uttered these words within him.

U Mer Mer hope that when the good LORD call us "home", we will go home together hand-in-hand, just like the dream U Mer Mer had a few days ago.

Eyeing Wallpaper

U Mer Mer lastest handphone wallpaper - this is to keep me alert all the times and best of all laughter when I am sad.

Su Mor Kong now is getting more & more creative !!! Hahaha....

Cannot MMS or SMS

U Mer Mer promised Su Mo Kong yesterday that U MEr Mer will not call or SMS to her for these 2 days due to a "circumstances".

Anyway, U Mer Mer 'slipped' in 1 SMS before the "arrival" .. hahaha Sorry yah ...


When U Mer Mer received her 1st MMS photo, really tempted to SMS her back but held back cos' U Mer Mer knew that "they" are with her.


The 'SMS hold back" really unbearable for U MEr Mer.

Wow !!! It is so hard when missing someone.


Anyway, just by receiving her MMS enough to comfort & cure U Mer Mer's longing heart.

Dr. Su Mor Kong - thanks for your 'mms medicine' .. hahaha

Red Wine rewards

Bought 2 bottles of Su Mor Kong favourite red wine. Been searching for this particular brand for months and finally found it !!! So happy !!!

U Mer Mer told Su Mor Kong that she can take 1 bottle anytime as she deserved it. Her contributions, sacrifices, love, sharing, "torturing", patience, laughters, smiles, etc ... hahaha.

Another one .. hmmmm ... need to wait lar until she achieved her own challenge - that is !!! ... to get herself healthy at her desire weight ... 52 KG !!! by the end of JULY 2008 !!!!

We agreed to 'delay" the project from June to July liao ... no more delay liao .. hahaha. U Mer Mer will motivate & "torture' her with care & love... hahaha
Hmmm ... I cycle she jog, I eat she drinks ... hahaha


No lar, we will do it together, ok, Su Mor Kong? Your pain is my pain, your gain is also my gain. Sharing good times & bad times together, ok?

Guy of Su Mor Kong choice

Su Mor Kong mms some photos of handsome guys loitering in Singapore ... hahahaha ...

What would be your choice ?

U Mer Mer was exceedingly glad & over-joy when she picked the last one ... hahahaha

BTW ... U Mer Mer looks slightly younger in person than in that photo .. hahaha

Seeing things

The flower memo sticker is very useful and catchy ... hahaha. Su Mor Kong shared with me that what she wants or hope for always come true. Just like the flower picture that she drawn on my palm before leaving to Singapore, it was so coincident that I happened to find a memo stickers that have the same shape of her drawing.... amazing !!

That shopping centre was the last place I look for when buying stationaries cos' the products there are not kept tidy. It so happened that the 1st shopping centre has only 1 color. And then as I need to wait for another 30 minutes to get a photo develop, I went to that particular shopping centre. So amazing !!!

Yesterday, as we were talking, she shared that before she bought her car, the number 9xxx were seen on the road many times and from different vehicles. When her car came out, the number was as same as what she saw on the road.

For U Mer Mer, not that 'chun lar" ... U Mer Mer experienced similar thing but not in numbers but in color and model.

When we had our so called BIGGEST "silent mode" arguments from May 13 - 16, 2008, U Mer Mer was really sad and in pain .... to add more to it, every where U Mer Mer went, U Mer Mer saw this light blueish Unser.

U Mer Mer went for a walk exercise, saw this mpv parked at my usual place, went to Subang - highway saw one and when I drove to Melaka ... saw one too.

Went to my customer factory, saw this baby monkey in the cage. (will upload picture later .. sorry can't find the photo liao .. 06:04 pm).

All these re-remind me of Su Mor Kong !!!

What amazed U Mer Mer was, when we started to talk again, I could not see any light blueish Unser anywhere.

Where have they gone to? Hmmmm ... I wonder?

Dark moment - May 13

On May 13 2008 (Tue) marked the 'dark' moment of our relationship. We were having an issue.

Su Mor Kong doesn't want to answer my phone call at all and it makes U Mer Mer more worry.

Those few days were agonizing for U Mer Mer and for Su Mor Kong.

U Mer Mer really doesn't know how to solve this matter, sent so many "I am sorry" mms, Su Mor Kong 'boh hew" (don't bother).

Our way of resolving the 'issue' were thru' SMSes. It is so hard for U MEr MEr to expressed himself about the matter, but had no choice cos' Su Mor Kong doesn't want to answer my calls.

Before U Mer MEr can finish typing the SMS, received another from her and then another one. I really 'kalah' ...



U Mer Mer really don't know what to do. At last called for help, Jer 33:3 "Call to Me, and I will answer you, and show you great and mighty things, which you do not know."

The caused of this 'dark mement' was U Mer Mer was not discern of his job scope. U Mer Mer innocently & blur-2 fetch and send a female customer back home without thinking of the consequences to a man who has a life partner/family to take care.

I am sorry Su Mor Kong for making you angry & upset & worried.

Shoes

Found a pair of lady shoes in my car ... hmmmm .... siapa punya yah ??? hahaha..

Must bring this pair of shoes and search for the rightful owner to be the queen of U Mer Mer's life .. hahaha.

Talking about shoes, I recall a very famous animation movie by Walt Disney ... yah ... Cinderella !!

The prince searched the whole kingdom for the owner of the glass shoe that was left in a hurry by Cinderella during the king's party.

Would U Mer Mer be able to find the rightful owner?

The mysterious lady also left a clothes hanger in the car .... another clue to find her .... hahaha.

Dream - walking to school hand-in-hand

This morning had a dream of walking to school with Su MOr KOng, hand-in-hand and we were walking, we were jumping, hopping, laughing so loud and suddenly .... U Mer Mer heard a loud sound ... school bell ??!!! No lar. It was SMS ringtone. Someone sms me, so early ??!!!

Pai sei ... it was from Su Mor Kong .. hahaha ..

She was early .... 06:30 am !!! Marking the exams papers...wow so much works. Been doing that since yesterday nite.

Singapore - the story

(left) A Double deck table to put their food stuffs and no chair available for sitting. Suitable for a quick meals & space.
(right) Japanese meatBall - one of Su Mor Kong favourite .... looks so nice & yummy, can tah-pau back?

Red Wine - The Little Penguin

Aiyahh ... cannot tahan liao !!! Must tell the "other' exciting discovery !!! Cannot keep too long especially when U Mer Mer is alone here without having Su Mor Kong to enjoy the excitement together !!!

More 'frustrated' is that Su Mor Kong's handphone can't received the MMS photo that I sent her ... making her more suspence more than ever !!!

U Mer Mer went to Maxis Centre, they told me nothing wrong with my handphone, so sorry Su Mor Kong, it is not my intention to keep you in suspence ...

Anyway... I hope she can get hold of internet service and view them from our blog.

For many months and many attempts from U Mer Mer to search the brand of red wine that Su Mor Kong likes very much but many many times have fail.

This morning !!!! .... U Mer Mer finally found it !!!!!!!!!

Ladies & Gentlemen ... U Mer Mer proudly present to you ..... "The Little Penguin" !! ....

The brand that U Mer Mer has been hunting high & low - from Sungai Wang to Damansara to Petaling Jaya to Subang to Klang.

Each time U Mer Mer went to a shopping centre, always ask/search for it but not successful. But today ... ladies & gentlemen .... I found it !!! Hahaha ...

So excited, like found a goldmine. Su Mor Kong loved this brand so much that she kept mentioning it each time when we have red/white wine together or when we saw wines.

My little gift to you, my dear Su Mor Kong, for all the support & encouragement & "torturing" hahaha ... that you have shared and walk through with U Mer Mer.

"Thank you."

And another bottle for you as a reward for your 52kg challenge.

Memo sticker = palm message

This morning, Su Mor Kong out of the sudden, called U Mer Mer to buy some memo stickers and some more requested for two different colors.... hahaha..

Well U Mer Mer went to Tesco, found memo stickers but only in yellow. Then went to photo shop to develop a very special photo but told to come back in 30 minutes cos' the machine is not ready.

U Mer Mer went to Giant to look for the memo stickers with 2 different colors ... while flipping through - you know what I found ??!!! My heart nearly stop !!!

Memo stickers with different colors !! Not 2 !!! But 3 !!!!

And the most exciting part was ....... the memo stickers have the same flower pattern that Su Mor Kong wrote on my palm before leaving to Singapore !!!! If you look closely, there are 5 petals and it is the same as what she drawn yesterday .... so amazing, miracles !!

I tell you .... I am so, so, so excited !!!! Even as I writing this blog, my heart still cannot calm down !!! Hahahaha...

I need CPR ..... hahahaha...

My discovery did not stop just there ..... another one is more exciting than this one ..... see me at the next blog entry ....

Palm message

Su Mor Kong "palm message" before leaving to Singapore.

Dreamt of Su Mor Kong

Just barely less than 9 hours, U Mer Mer already missed Su Mor Kong ! Missed her face, missed her voice, missed her laughter .... hahaha.


The dream that I had this evening was so real that I could not believed that it was just a dream.
Actually, U Mer Mer also could not remember when he went to lie down on the bed, the last thing U Mer Mer could remember was sitting on a chair updating church new website .... amnesia?? I hope not... I am too young for that & I don't want to forget Su Mor Kong ... hahaha.

Anyway back to the dream .... Dreamt that I walked out from the courier office (why? Su Mor Kong got a document left behind), then reached my pocket to SMS to Su Mor Kong and suddenly the phone rang; a call from Su Mor Kong .... I literally !! ... could see her phone number appeared on my handphone. I answered, "Good Morning!", then I heard a faint voice asking, "are you sleeping?" and I can somemore answered, "no".

Then when I opened my eyes - I am at home !! not outside !! Then I realized it was just a dream !!

Wat lau !!! So real !!!

Think I missed her too much liao .... or maybe it was the side effect from looking at her photos in the evening while doing archiving.


Better blog this event before I forget about it .... not easy to recall dreams.

Although it was just a dream, U Mer Mer was happy cos' Su Mor Kong's presence has impact U Mer Mer life already.

Hope that Su Mor Kong will have the same effect ... hahaha .... dream pushing U Mer Mer body down so that U Mer Mer could touch his toes hahaha...

Imagine during her sleep, she shout ... "lo lo lo" (hokkien for down, down, down) .. the person sleeping with her will a get shocked of her life !!!! hahaha..

Su Mor Kong - Singapore

Su Mor Kong leaving to Singapore at 02:00 pm. Enjoy the training trip and have a safe trip.

Su Mor Kong challenge by end of June 2008

Gift: Self-Inking Rubber Stamp

Very thoughtful of Su Mor Kong, even U Mer Mer missed out this matter. Thanks.