Melaka - 1st time goto movie

While doing my canvassing, U Mer Mer received sms from Su Mor Kong to go for a 6:45 pm movie ... wat lau !!! My heart was pumping very fast ler ... 1st time ler .. Ok ! Ok ! Ok ! Work harder !! hahaha..

Actual plan was to catch a movie back home but due to time, we watched the movie in Melaka. She intends to watch "Man of Honor" but out of luck, no such show there, so we opt to watch "Sex & the city" ... which was a blessing in diguise for us.

We bought 2 tickets; row G03 & G04; instead, we choose for ourselves a better seat cos' the theatre was rather empty.

As the show was going on, Su Mor Kong will give some pointers of the movie background, the message of the movie.

Hmmm .... seemed like a women power show to me .. hahaha cos' 80% of the movie covered with females ... hahaha ...

Some of the scene, Su Mor Kong had to cover U Mer Mer's eyes cos' they are for "adults only" hahaha ... especially the "sushi parts" hahaha..

I am not sure whether the people sitting behind us are enjoying the movie on the screen or our romantic & humorous actions .. hahaha..

U Mer Mer understands the movie better because it relates to the 5 love languages & also some of the real life things that SU Mor Kong & U Mer Mer had and is going through.

It worth the time & money to watch this movie. Now we intend to get a DVD copy (uncensored !! wow !!! hahaha)

Melaka - Canvassing

This trip, we were seperated in doing our works.

Su Mor Kong suggested to U Mer Mer to do his business canvassing which is a great idea.

The "LOVE" boost U Mer Mer to keep on going canvassing although finding poor responses. Each time when U Mer Mer is down, U Mer Mer will look at the palm last row ...

Su Mor Kong also concerned how U Mer Mer was doing. U Mer Mer was about to give up and start to giving excuses to himself ... "aiyoh ... lunch time liao, go back to meet with Su Mor Kong at the factory" - call it a day.

But --- no sales lar. Cannot give up so easily, hmmm ... try again. Look at the palm again to remind myself - WHY & WHAT is my purpose ... LOVE.

At the end, managed to get a web contract and some more better .. with a payment !!!

So happy inside !!

Can't wait to show it to Su Mor Kong !!!

Melaka - Chinese Language class

Oh ... yahhhh ....

We also had our chinese language lesson in the car.

The top left = "siau" (honor - the character displayed a son carrying the parent on his back)
The top right = "earn" (thankful)
The mid left = "chai" (talent)
The mid right ="xin" (heart)
The whole bottom row = the LOVE !!

Melaka - poking virus

During our journey to Melaka .... we encountered a very rare "virus". This virus is very subtle !! It would come and poke you .... hahaha..

Each poke will injects another virus call ..... LOVE hahaha...

So the whole journey was filled with LOVE !!! Love will come poking at any time, any place and if not careful - can poke at unexpected place .. hahahaha...

Melaka - Simple drinks

Hahahaha .... a simple morning teh tarik & ice lemon tea had eventually led us to Melaka together !!

How it happened ?? Missed each other too much !!! Hahaha

I am in LOVE as I told Heavenly Father

This morning prayer started with prayer for Su Mor Kong evangelism project ... that wisdom, unity, courage, "fire" would be with her.

Also thanking God that she is "back" & on fire for HIM ....

As the prayer progressed .... with a high spirit, I told my Heavenly Father that I AM IN LOVE !! I want HIM to share with U Mer Mer this overflowing joy & love. Some more talk with HIM in Hokkien ... "kau-lat" cos' I really cannot find any other words to describe to HIM at that moment .... hahaha !!



Su Mor Kong also surprised with what I've done .. hahaha ....



.... What to do ??? My love tank is full and the love keeps on flowing in, share with HIM and let HIM share the happiness and to tell Su Mor Kong about this U Mer Mer "overflowing" ... God also got Su Mor Kong phone direct line ... mah ... hahaha ..

Love generate extra ordinary energy

Today Bible studies described how Jacob was able to rolled away the stone for Rachel to get the water for the sheeps. Just one push ... that's it !!

happiness consists of:
(1) having someone to love,
(2) something to do, and
(3) something to look forward to

That is the mighty power of love. Love produces a special strength that is unpredictable. Love also gives hope, purpose and strength.

What Jacob experienced is what U Mer Mer is experiencing now.

Su Mor Kong is the source of U Mer Mer power !!! Hahaha...

Complaint to God about U Mer Mer

This morning devotion, I 'kena hentam' by our Heavenly Father. HE must have received a complaint phone call from Su Mor Kong on yesterday incident.

It happened yesterday, around dinner time, when Su Mor Kong asked me how have I dealt with a certain matter. U Mer Mer in his foolishness ... again, did not made clear of the matter. Using too much of flowering words - thus making the message becoming misrepresented & disillusion. This had caused Su Mor Kong to be very angry.

Since today is 26th, U Mer Mer turn to the daily dose of wisdom lar ... Book of Proverbs chapter 26.

God straight away shoot me from verse 1. HE didn't wait until later verses !!

When I read this, wah-lau ... same like Su Mor Kong, shoot straight, no darling-2 talk, or honey-2 talk !!!

I said to God, "God .... yesterday I already "kena kau-2" from Su Mor Kong & this morning "kena" from YOU again .... U Mer Mer must have done something that is seriously stupid & hurtful that causes 2 persons who care for me to shoot me !!!

"God, please forgive me for my foolishness", as I prayed.

Well, HE doesn't just stop there and said O.K lar, but ... HE shoot me further again in verses 4-5, and then 6-9 and more to come in verse 11, verse 17,18-19, then God took a short tea breaks... then continue lecturing me with verses 24-26 and when U Mer MEr thought it has ended ... God reminded U Mer Mer again when it comes to the final verse ... verse 28.

Dearest Su Mor Kong, U Mer Mer is learning from all the past mistakes and trying his very best not to repeat them. Tho' at times U Mer Mer did forget & gone back into old ways ... it is not intentionally. Please be patience with this blur-2 U Mer Mer.

I want to strive to become a better person, a spiritual leader ..... for you & 3 twinkle-2 little stars (since they now don't like to be call little monkeys).

Forgive me for hurting you ..... it is the very, very, very last thing that I want to do ....

Lyrics - You took my heart away

Staring at the moon so blue
Turning all my thoughts to you
I was without hope or dream
Try to dull an inner scream
But you . . . saw me through . . .

Walking on a path of air
See your faces everywhere
As you melt this heart of stone
You take my hand to guide me home and now I’m in love

You took my heart away
When my whole world was grey
You gave me everything and a little bit more
And when it’s cold at night
And you sleep by my side
You become the meaning of my life . . .

Living in a world so cold
You were there to warm my soul
You came to mend a broken heart
You gave my life a brand new start
And now . . . I ’m in love

You took my heart away
When my whole world was grey
You gave me everything and a little bit more
And when it’s cold at night
And you sleep by my side
You become the meaning of my life . . .

Holding your hands
I won’t fear tomorrow
Here where we stand
We never be alone

You took my heart away
When my whole world was grey
You gave me everything and a little bit more
And when it’s cold at night
And you sleep by my side
You become the meaning of my life . . .
You become the meaning of my life . . .
You become the meaning
You become the meaning of my life . .

I say a little prayer for you ...

Each day & each moment ...

Count the monkeys if can't zzz

The time now is 2:52 am.

Wondering why am I still awake ? Cos’ U Mer Mer don’t know how to sleep liao …

Started with a "think of you" SMSes and then lead to a “simple” phone call which later lead to a 2 hours conversation.

How did we got into it ? “woa pu tzi tau” !! (I don't know)

U Mer Mer told Su Mor Kong that he doesn't know how to sleep now, and instead of traditional method like counting the sheep jumping over a fence, she told U Mer Mer to count the number of monkeys jumping over the wall !! …… hahaha

Oooo … yah … she suppose to count the sheep & I to count the monkeys … hahaha

So ... while counting the monkeys jumping over the wall, do some blogging lar ... hahaha

Evangelism in Su Mor Kong

Since last Tuesday morning, Su Mor Kong has been sharing about ways of getting new people into the church, started about "out in the nature" camping with a mission - getting non christian youths to join in.

During these few days, Su Mor Kong came up with different ideas & perspective on how to attract the new people participations.

She is so excited about it and for the very first time, before the sun comes up, before the crowing of the mother hen - she SMS to U Mer Mer that she had another great idea ....


She is getting more and more excited about it more than anyone else. She is on fire for the things of God !!

From a "quiet" church attendee, she is beginning to turn into a "loud" attendee ... hahaha .. even much firery than U Mer Mer. This Su Mok Kong is turning into a gorilla for God !!! U Mer Mer is very glad and over joyed by her zealousness.

During this morning sermon, the speaker talked about mission trip & evangelism in Nam Hong, Thai ... it had deepened her zealousness and of what had been going through her mind in the past few days.

U Mer Mer remembered what Su Mor Kong had shared about her childhood days. She would go out to town and giving out leaflets to the people, inviting them to church for special events. After more xx years, that experienced still has strong impact in her memory & life.

It is the "I found it" happiness & joy experience.

I believe God is doing & going to do a greater things in her life in the coming days !!

Su Mor Kong - be prepare for a greater revival & move of God in your life ! Do not be afraid, for HE is bringing you good news & peace.

In the course of the firefy spirit, let there also be a gentle firmness. Always commit your ways and plan unto the Lord for HE shall direct the pathway.

God bless you.

p/s.. Hey ... Su Mor Kong, you are the apple in the eyes of God. You are very special !!

Reason to achieve - Su Mor Kong

These are not mere words but the deepest and truest feeling of U Mer Mer's heart.

get up

Just as I thought I can rest and flip through today newspaper with a cup of nescafe ... saw Su Mor Kong's warning sign !!!

Today newspaper comic potrayed what she was trying to tell to me all these while .... GET UP from the dreamland !!!!

Don't be "norrr" and complacent !!! Don't have much time liao !!!!

Wow !!! Su Mor Kong's yesterday "teaching class" to U Mer Mer really "kau-lat" !! Even today newspaper also support her !!

Teeth mark

We left to P at 05:00 am and our journey took us 4 hours & 30 minutes which normally according to Su Mor Kong only took 4 hours top !!

Maybe we were too caught up with our conversations & laughters that we didn't follow the speed limits of 110 km/h .. instead we were going at 90 km/h .. hahaha ..

This morning, we discovered a new radio channel called "U Mer Mer mobile station 88.9 FM" .. this channel has morning prayer, praise & worship, morning devotion & romantic songs. And it is created specially for Su Mor Kong ....



We were able to reached the place safe and sound although there were one or two incident that were scary to us but we thanked God for His protection. As what we have heard on the radio morning devotion ... that in silent, the Lord protect us from all harms. Thank you Lord, from both of us.

The meeting was cut short into just half a day session, so happy !! We went across the street for lunch ... one of Su Mor Kong favourite ... and another one (no picture) .. prawn + water chestnut roll



Coming back journey was filled with serious talk & teaching. Su Mor Kong imparted a lot of teaching, knowledge, "warnings", encouragements & firmness into U Mer Mer.

At one point of time, she took my "chor soh" (left hand) and crunched her teeths into it !!

Aiyohh !! ... so painful !!

Pain not because of the bite on the hand, but the pain in my heart.

My heart felt with pain ... painful that U Mer Mer had costs Su Mor Kong to be so angry & upset with U Mer Mer complaceny, slow to act and lacked of focus in the business !!

Even collecting payment also took so long !!



Sorry Su Mor Kong for causing you pain. Even though the bite is on my flesh but the pain is in my heart and in yours too.

Farewell Dinner

Yesterday ... Su Mor Kong organized a farewell dinner gathering for "PT".

Ooo... before U Mer Mer proceeds any further, I like to compliment Su Mor Kong for her hearty effort !!!

U Mer Mer got to know that it was her very 1st time to cook curry, yesterday she learned how to cook vegetables curry.

She S.O.S to her senior sifu for instant recipe .. hahaha. Taste ?? Hmmmm ... perfect, not spicy and little monkeys could eat it too.

Besides the vegetables curry, she also prepared home-made .... jelly !! Lots of nice shapes and "bouncy" too ....

And what we did next ?

We two semi-professional drink-makers prepared orange + mango + 7up drinks that could fill up 50-60 peoples !!

At the end, we nearly pour it into the drain but luckily some "real professional" people stop us, and we tah-pau back .... let me see ... 6 bottles + 2 jugs !!! Imagined that !!

We have this & that and more of this & that ....


Wise people said that a person should never give any comment about other people cooking but here U Mer Mer could not resist lar ... must comment one .... hahaha ...
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The comment is good ... very good....

Ended our "hardworking day" with a few toasts of the "Little Penguin" shiraz red wine .. so satisfying ....

At the end of the day . . . .

. . . it is not what type of food that we eat or the taste but .... the pleasure & the quality of time that we spent and seeing people being truly blessed by the fellowship, both the host & the guests.

So "complete".

God bless Su Mor Kong & the "co-organizer" ..

Thank you

No other words that I can say to my Su Mor Kong except the above.

Despite of Su Mor Kong's very tight schedule, mountaineous responsibilities, she sacrifices alot for U Mer Mer.

For all the encouragements, push, loves, supports, concerns, cares, time, "torturing" moments inwhich I enjoyed alot ... hahaha .. "lecturing" sessions, hopefully NOT ...... the "rotan" hahaha ..

Garlic - appreciate

Here U Mer Mer also want to thank Su Mor Kong for her "courageous act" in finishing the high garlic flavoured fried rice ... hahaha..

Thank you Su Mor Kong !

Garlic - No No No

Whatttt is that smell ?!!! ....

The very first utterance from Su Mor Kong when U Mer Mer picked her up for the morning jog.

Actually it was the fried rice cooked by U Mer Mer for the "after jogging breakfast" .. hahaha..

Su Mor Kong later called to apologized for the abrupt remarks knowing that effort had been put to fried the rice. No offence taken.

Now U Mer Mer knows that Su Mor Kong doesn't fancy fresh garlic .. hahaha ...

Been away - Love pill

Our jogging session had been postponed to July 15 ... that's when the "Been away - Love pill" will wear out .... 2 weeks + 1 day from the date when she first gave the pills to me ....

What is the morale of this story ??!!! :

Next time, don't simply take the "been away - love pill". The more you take, the more days you need to wait !!! ... Hahahaha

Jogging sandals to shoes

Jogged with Su Mor Kong a few times and she usually wore sandals to jog with me but on July 01, 2008 ... she wore shoes.

That means she wants to get faster and longer route ... hmmm ... this U Mer Mer needs to buckle up or else left far far behind liao ....

Want nose bleeding ??? hahaha

MMS to Su Mor Kong my favourite drinks ... hahaha

Parking C5 - The Happening

Ha ha ha ... Finally !!! We did "it" in the parking lot !!

Just one day before U Mer Mer was to fly off, Su Mor Kong gave one of the 5 love language treatment ...the "Physical Touch" !!



First, Su Mor Kong turned on romantic songs ... just to create the mood. The time was right, the place was right, the "aura" was high .. hahaha ....

Su Mor Kong asked U MEr Mer, "Where shall we start?"

It was so thrilling and painful at certain parts. Didn't know that Su Mor Kong was that strong and full of energy !

We don't bother about other people walking by - we just did it because it is fun, loving & energetic !!

Wow !!!!

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Hey !!! Don't think "sengit" , ok ?!!

She just putting some traditional herb and massage U Mer Mer's arms cos' U Mer Mer was having some pain and shivering ... hahaha

*updated (July 11,08) .... Now everytime when I past-by that C5 pillar, I will laugh !!!
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Su Mor Kong also gave U Mer Mer 2 tablets of "been away - love pill" ... which will last for 2 weeks ... hahaha ...

52 kg Challenge

Just a moment ago, Su Mor Kong called to postponed our tomorrow jogging to July 15. And during that conversation ... U Mer Mer reminded Su Mor Kong about her challenge, to reduce her weight to 52kg !!

Su mor Kong thought U Mer Mer had forgotten about this great challenge ... mana boleh !!!

Sit also nampak, lie down also nampak, stand also nampak .... don't believe ??!!!


The "trophy of achievement" also prepared liao .....

U Mer Mer will push & push, squezee & squeeze Su Mor Kong and help her to achieve her challenge !!!!

The "torturer" is here .... hehehe

Could not zzz

Could not zzzz ...... U Mer MEr so happy, going to meet Su Mor KOng on monday for morning jog !!

Still got 25 hours to go .... hehehe

5 days unshaved

Hairy surface .. hahaha

U Mer Mer and Su Mor Kong in Chiang Mai

Image Consultant

A long distance image consultation phone call had totally changed this U Mer Mer's clothings appearance ... Hahaha ..

U Mer Mer had not been wearing jeans since form 3 .... and when Su Mor Kong suggested it .... U Mer Mer nearly pengsan !!! Jeans ??!! ... Aiyeeehhhh .... feeling weird lar.

Told Su Mor Kong ... very difficult to match with shoes lar ... she said, "No need to buy shoes for jeans one !! Any shoes will do !! Look at me, I wear sports shoes also matching, high heels also matching !!" ... hahaha ... Seriously .. she looks very pretty with jeans & high heels ..

Ok lar .... U Mer Mer go and buy by faith lar !!! .... Walked to the market and bumped into two of the auntie-2 who so happen are going to buy some clothing.

At the shop, the auntie-2 recommend this & that and even the shop keeper also support their choices .... U Mer Mer said, "I want to follow this SMS specifications .... " hahaha

Bought 2 pairs of jeans (lite blue & black) .... happily wore it straight away to the hotel & to the nite bazaar market ... they were also surprised cos' they have never see me wearing a jeans before !!

After wearing for a couple of hours ... hey .. I found it to be very comfortable and stylish ... and even the shoes now matched the jeans !! Hahaha ... Will get more when I am there again.

Thanked my image consultant ler .... can do it even on the phone ... no need photos .... so "keng chau !!" Hahaha

My dearest image consultant has taken care of me from inside out ..... wow !!!

Glad to be back

My very first feeling when I got back was very happy & glad that the trip was finally comes to an end !!

Been away for 5 days and yet seemed very long. Anyway glad to be back and eagerly to "see" Su Mor Kong !! Haha...