Mobile Doctor on morning call

Church Projects

- Kids Hudson Taylor Evangelism: done on Aug 2008
- Fasting & Prayer: 4/10/2008
- Christmas (Dec 21st) Carnival:
- Youth Outing to Hot spring:

Monster

Su Mor Kong fore-warn U Mer Mer the dangers of becoming too ambitious in my business, that I may resolve to use any methods to gain it without considering the integrity and value.

Should these be violated, Su Mor Kong afraid that I will turn into a monster !

She reminded me that my AIM or Primary Target:

1- Hard working: Like tending a land. Everyday just keep on sowing the seeds, watering, fertilize, trimming, getting rid of pests, and harvesting.

2- Then keep on sowing and when I continue doing it, I will be humbled.

Everyday have a PDCA (Plan, Do, Check & Act).

Everyday ask God to renew my mind & restore my soul. In doing what is right before HIM. Like what Su Mor Kong's advice "Everyday change your brain & heart before doing anything".

Everyday "soon-soon". And also having the flexibility to serve God in church ministry.

Our relationship is not to compete, envy or overpower but of unconditional love .... just a Christ loves us.

Our foundation - unconditional LOVE.

Cooking Fish + Bee Hoon + Vege

Got the recipe from Su Mor Kong, so ..... enjoy...

(a) Bee Hoon + Fish

Soaked the bee hoon (vermicelli-Jasmine brand) in hot water for less than 30 seconds ... to get it soften.

The ingredients: Garlic, mushrooms (soaked with hot water for 10 minutes & slice), Sour Plum - 5 to 8 (depends on size), tofu, 2 tomato, salted vegetable (1 full packet) and ginger and of course the FISH .... hehehe.

With such ingredients, even your dishes will smile at you ... hahaha ..

And .... the finished meal, after steamed for 10 minutes.

I needed around 15-17 minutes because I didn't defrost the fish properly - so remember: defrost !!!

(b) The Dry-Prawn + Tofu

First of all, soaked the dry-prawn (hey-bi) into hot water for 5-8 minutes. Then pound them.

Suppose to fry the dry-prawn 1st before spreading it on top of the tofu (get rid of the smell), but U Mer Mer didn't do so as not written .. hahaha ... Then add some shallot and a little bit of soy sauce.

Steam for 5 minutes.

Though, U Mer Mer didn't fry the dry-prawn; as suppose to; U Mer Mer's brother gave thumbs up for it's taste !! Wow !!! He is so cerewet about food and still can gives compliment ... hmmm not bad.

Thank you Su Mor Kong ...... my chieft chef .. hahaha

p/s. Now U Mer Mer's family are waiting for the next mysterious cooking dish ... hahahaha

Discipline & Focus & Urgency

Yesterday Su Mor Kong was very angry that U Mer Mer took his own time to finish projects !!! She rebuked U Mer Mer of indisciplined & lack of focus !!

This morning as U Mer Mer read "Our Daily Bread", the article also talks about discipline & regular practice !!! Talk about coincidence !!!

Hmmm .... went to church for the Sunday Service, and don't know why, U Mer Mer was drawn to sit in front row although U Mer Mer seldom don't & some more today's speaker is not my favourite ... hahahaha (sorry yah ..).

The Sunday sermon also talk about facing adversity and how to overcome them. One of them is discipline !!

Adoi !! .... U Mer Mer really felt the impact of the message as though that God is telling me face to face through various methods !! Thru' Su Mor Kong, Our Daily Bread and now during the Sunday sermon !!!

Maybe, just maybe ... Su Mor Kong called God's direct line again ... hahaha .. (actually she uses telepathic .. hahaha) and told God how complacent U Mer Mer is !!

Messages have been very clear - now to put into action !!!

Cooking - not easy

U Mer Mer learned that it is not easy to prepare meals.

Just to buy the stuffs, took me almost one hour (for a first timer).
Another 30 to 1 hour to clean, cut, remove fish scales ... talking about the fish scales, while scaling the fish, the scales fly all over my body and face !!
Another 1 hour to cook the vegetables & steaming the fish.

Another 10-15 minutes to bath cos' whole body smells !!

When I told Su Mor Kong about it, she sms to me .... saying "now you know it is not easy being a housewife".

Yah .. after going through the process myself, I find it not easy tasks. It may look easy but believe me ... it is NOT !!

Well, with this experience, I be able to help my mom when she is too busy to cook and when I got married, I can help my dear wife to prepare a romantic and delicious meals for her & those who are around.

Cooking 03 Buying Vegetables

Do you know that there are 3 types of cabbages?!!!

Took me almost one hour to shop for the ingredients .... what to do, never cook for the last 41 years ... except fried rice, cook chicken rice and instant noodles.... hahaha..

Some of the ingredients I also don't know how it looks like, or which brand is good or taste better, etc ... don't dare to call my "boss"to ask ler, she is busy working ..... this type of la-la-chap-chap things is too micro for her .... hahaha...

cooking 03 Vegetables

Now .. the 3rd recipe ..... vegetables

Lettuce:
- 1 lettuce
- 1 piece of cili beancurd
- garlic
- salt

Cabbage:
- wash and put into a pail of water mixed with salt (removing ulat, if any)
- 1 cabbage
- garlic
- salt

Cooking 02 Tau Choo

The 2nd fish dish ...

- Defrost the fish
- remove fish scales
- Ginger and garlic fried for awhile
- add cili padi (4) and fried together
- 2 spoons of bean paste (mince) added and fried together with the ginger, garlic & cili padi (just a few seconds only)
- pour it to the fish
- steam the fish for 8 minutes .. why 8 minutes cos' the fish only half size.

Cooking 01

Su Mor Kong taught me her secret recipe through phone...

- Ginger (cut into thin slices)
- Garlic
- Sour Plum
- Fish
- Mushroom
- 2 Tomato
- Steam for 10 minutes only !!!

Diary 2008

There are 3 criteria that U Mer Mer needs to fulfil:
1) To love all (1 Su Mor Kong + 3 monkeys)
2) To save RM100,000 by end of 2009
3) To own no: 34

In Business:
1) No relatives as shareholder
2) Seperate personal from business
3) Not a womanizer

Personal growth:
- Faithful in church ministry
- To loose 3 kg by October 01, 2008 (goal sets at 82 kg)
- To go back to studies & earn a Degree (at least)
- Do not fetch or have supper with opposite sex
- Do not sms wishes to somebody wife
- Walk straight
- Drink a lot of water
- Constantly upgrade my self: reading & learning
- Upgrade my social status
- Talk sensibility and not too casual
- Never assume things
- Serve one time dish to the big boss/host to show appreciation.
- To inform the host or person in charge of my leaving, instead of leaving quietly.
- Don't talk about our adventure or private things when got outsiders.
- Don't keep on blaming ownself, take action plan. If forgetful, write down- don't say got bad memory.
- Trust Su Mor Kong's recipe. If 4 chilli means 4 chilli - If 10 minutes means 10 minutes, that's it !!!
- Read sms carefully and disgest and understand it - don't read it carefree or assuming.
- Su Mor Kong is a BULLET train, U Mer Mer is KTM train. When she is on training or working, make sure KTM is out of the way or get crash !! If got crash, cannot blame her for getting angry.
- In corporate gathering, don't serve Su Mor Kong too many times, people are observing.

And to love you, Su Mor Kong, with all my heart & soul.

Angel from Heaven - Su Mor Kong

Remember how ill-manner I was in leaving the class without notifying them, didn't talk to them during yesterday dinner ?

Tonight, Su Mor Kong redeemed U Mer Mer ill-manner when she bought the dried mamee tidbits and ask U Mer Mer to give to the participants.

When I entered the class, some of them were surprised that I went back again. U Mer Mer said, "Dear class, here is some snacks while you are doing your homeworks. I appreciate your hard works, keep it up and you can do it !!" and as I lift up my two thumbs in showing the appreciation - all of them claps !!!

It is indeed an appreciation and honor given by the class and all these are possible because of Su Mor Kong's caring heart.

Knowing her, I know that she has been concerned the whole afternoon on ways how to redeem U Mer Mer ill-manner mistakes ... on top of her more "pening kepala" training session.

Su Mor Kong - THANK YOU !!! Even when your mind is occupied with your training preparation - you never stops thinking of this blur-2 U Mer Mer's welfare.

You have unselfishly and lovingly time after time, showering U Mer Mer with your care & love. You made me larger than life itself. Su Mor Kong .. you ARE an ANGEL sent by God from the Heaven above.

Terima Kasih,
Thank You,
Sei Sei,
Kam-Siah.

Enter at your own risk - hahaha

Done this sign label before flying to Sabah ... hahaha... hmmm .... now when and where can I use it ... hahaha...

Planned to do it when reached Sandakan but due to the complexity of the situation .. hahaha ... now may delay it .... hahaha

Day 03 - empty luggage

What a relief for both of us when all the training materials were unload !!! We came with around 40kg of the training materials !! We put some of them in our hand carry bag and back pack as the luggage has reached the 15 kg per check in.

Both of us have 6 hand carrying bags and 2 large check in luggages .... nobody can imagine how we looked like .... hahahaha...

Day 03 - drinking water

Ever since I met Su Mor Kong, U Mer Mer had been drinking alot, lots, lots .... I meant alot of waters.

Today at the training, U Mer Mer drank 4 (500ml) bottles of water and now as I am back to the hotel, U Mer Mer already drank 3 bottles ... thank goodness there are still 3 more bottles left ... wow 10 bottles in a day (10 x 500 ml = 5 litres, hmmm .... actually not alot .... with my large size ..... Su Mor Kong likes to say it ...hahaha)

i want u

"I .... want .... you ......." said Su Mor Kong

"Lai-lai (come, come) ..... hahahaha" said U Mer Mer

Day 03 - pills, strepsil and tai tau har

Woke up at 05:45 am (as I thought so) to do morning devotion and prayer - 15 minutes later, U Mer MEr wanted to call Su Mor Kong for the "morning call" and .... as I look at the watch again... it is only 5:00 am and not 6 am !!! I saw wrongly lar !! U Mer Mer really a "tai tau har" !!

Su Mor Kong said that after just spending 2D1N, she realized that U Mer Mer is really a very, very, very, very "tai tau har" kind of person. Road can't recognize, Next-to-do things also forgetful, Direction also can missed or remember even walk through so many times.

One thing for sure ... U Mer Mer WILL always remembers and treasures Su Mor Kong.

(continue ..)

Had breakfast with Su Mor Kong, she said she needs to buy diet pill to stops her from eating more. U Mer Mer told her, she doesn't needs it cos' she has me. ... she laughed. She said with me around both of us ate more .. hahaha..

Well - without me, she needs to buy sleeping pills, anti boring pills, laughing pills, love pills ... hahaha.. having U Mer Mer is still the best !! hahaha

Day 02 - K.K to Sandakan

U Mer Mer couldn't find the extra door key to go out and surprised Su Mor Kong with "breakfast in bed".

Looked for it everywhere and later to find out, Su Mor Kong kepts it with her ... so no surprised breakfast in bed lor ... may try it again when we reach Sandakan ... hahaha.

Anway, we had the leftover mooncake and the capuccino muffin that she bought a day before. And enjoying the sea view at our window together ... hmmmm it was indeed a wonderful morning for us.

We reached Sandakan airport around 12:50 pm, stayed at Sabah Hotel .. very nice.

The Sandakan town was very small and very hot !! Su Mor Kong search for her moisture and hair conditioner and me look for toothpaste & deodorant ... me smelled like fish.

The hosts were kind, took us to eat the best seafood restaurant in town. Ordered so much that we hardly finish and both of us really over-filled .. hahaha..

additional: Su Mor Kong wants some distraction so that she could get a sleep, so we talked until she grow tired ... hahaha

Day 01

Flight delayed by 1 hour (10:30 am).

Checked in a nice hotel near the seaside, very nice seaview. The room has 2 beautiful & exotic views !!

One faced the open sea - islands, fishermen village, boats, restaurants.


Another one more keng-chau !!! ... faced the "exotic" view .. hahahaha..!!!


Afternoon Su Mor Kong meeting was very fruitful. The client is willing to introduce her to the most powerful person in charge. It was indeed a great news for her.

Bought a love shape chocolate for Su Mor Kong, just want to say .. thank you for everything both big & small.

At night, we went to the sea view restaurants but before we could eat, it rained. So we missed out the open space and had our tandoori chicken and beers indoor.

We walked back to our hotel wet in rain.

U Mer Mer went in to take a bath and only to realized that his short pant went missing !!! Thought I must have dropped on the floor but no where to be found.

Su Mor Kong went in the washroom, and "steal" my pant lar !!! She hid it under the bed blanket .. hahaha ... no wonder I could not find !!! ... hahaha...

It was a wonderful moments for us to be together - very relax mood, openness and loving each other.

Subway and to KK

Going to her office to re-check all the documents and files before Su Mor Kong departure.

Well ... before U Mer Mer could get to the office, he was "kidnap" again by her .. hahahaha. We went to handle her car documentation and had SUBWAY ... wow ... very nice ... hahaha..


Managed to get into her office after all ... U Mer Mer made the last arrange to follow her when getting to know that the person she is going to meet is a total stranger and some more may need to go into deep rural area to look at the place ... wow ... takut for her safety lar.

Instead of leaving on Tuesday, U Mer Mer left on Monday. Though it costs more but Su Mor Kong is more important than anything else.

Couldn't stop

I lost count of how many times we met & call each other. We seemed not to have enough of ourselves. Even when we were "seperated" just a few hours but it seemed very long.

We called each other and talk & talk until night time .. hahaha..

Wanted to eat the "ginger tong sui" but due to Su Mor Kong short of time - we didn't managed to. Instead of meeting face-to-face, we talked on the phone for hours..

Hats and monkeys

On our way back home, Su Mor Kong spotted some interesting stuffs and one of them were these "wild' hats.U Mer Mer likes the red color hat as it matches with Su Mor Kong's clothing on that day and also having a nice shape. Very nice !!

Su Mor Kong gave U Mer Mer the tiger-strip hat to be wear when we fly to Sabah next week.

We are going to turn Sabah upside down liao - by our laughter, our fashion, our jokes, our voices, our "caterpillar" touch .... hahahaha...

U Mer Mer bought 3 monkeys, one for the car, one for bedroom and one for the back-pack bag - constantly reminding of Su Mor Kong ... hahaha

Trainer trainers - Penang

September 08:

Hmmmm ... going to Penang for a training program. The amazing thing was ... U Mer Mer is not attending the training program but as a trainer to trains trainers !!! Wat lau !!!

How did this thing ever happened ? Well, Su Mor Kong throw another good bomb to me .. hahaha..

It was just a casual moment of conversation, about her "suffocation" with her staffs timidity and slow action. And then she said, “U Mer Mer – you go and train !!” and this U Mer Mer just agreed. So easy kau-tim ... just like that !!

Afraid ? Who wouldn’t? Hahaha.. Love and concern for Su Mor Kong has overcome the fear.

U Mer Mer recalled an event recorded in the Bible, how Peter walked on the seawater even there were waves around. As he walked, Peter focuses his attention to Lord Jesus but when he turned his focus away from Lord Jesus and looked into the raging waves, he began to sink.

Su Mor Kong asked U Mer Mer to write his own biodata.

Ok lor ... very easy mah ... hahaha. When Su Mor Kong looked at it, she asked “Are you looking for a job?, it looks more like a resume rather than a biodata lar” ... hahahaha..

Su Mor Kong began to draft U Mer Mer’s biodata asking a me a few key questions and less than 10 minutes, a very impressive biodata for U Mer Mer !

When U Mer Mer gone through the information, U Mer Mer also impressed with his “biodata” hahaha.
The biodata was so impressive that the company accepts U Mer Mer biodata without any further enquiry.

WOW !!! Even Su Mor Kong was very happy & impressive with her splendid work .... hahaha

Reached the Penang one day earlier so that U MEr Mer won't get tired from the driving and also to go through the slides presentation.

Had not been studying for many many years liao, getting back to "school" was "slowwww" hahaha
September 09: The day of the training has finally come. Got up at 5:30 am and have the morning devotion.

A bit nervous as time approaches and as I about to reach the training ground (by the way – the factory is really huge lar !!) but it vanishes after talking with Su Mor Kong on the phone. Her voice , her encouragement & her laughter brought calmness and peace – unexplainable.

My 2nd shocked came when I opened the envelope and to find out that the participants are high level management staffs !!! Ranging from General Manager to Supervisors !!! Wat lau !! And they came to be train by U Mer Mer !!

Toilet, please ?? hahaha

During the training, U Mer Mer tried very hard to remember Su Mor Kong’s advices – speak slowly & clearly. How was the training ended up ? Pretty good .. hahahaha

Got 7=very good, 8=good, 1=fair, around 10=spoilt feedback ... no bad for a 1st timer .. hahaha.

Su Mor Kong is very daring. She has the courage to appoint U Mer Mer to be a trainer for such a big company and knowing that U Mer Mer has never conducted a training before !!

I really salute Su Mor Kong !!! ... hahaha

The eyes

U Mer Mer never gets bored with those set of eyes !!! Sharp ! Strong ! Enchanted ! Wild ! "I want it NOW" kind of looks ! X-ray eyes - can see through walls and clothings ... hahaha ..

For U Mer Mer, Su Mor Kong has the most sweetest eyes.

2 kg ?? Japanese Buffet

When Su Mor Kong told me that our target are 2 kg, U Mer Mer assumed she meant reduce. Hmmm ... until later on she ask me to go with her for a Japanese food lunch buffet !!

Looks like it is going up 2 kg rather than coming down 2 kg .. hahaha..

Well .... the varieties of the food were so much !!! We can't even finish testing or erating every one of them !!! We ate from 2:15 pm until 5 pm !!!

imagine how much of food we store inside our tiny stomach .. hahaha..





When Su Mor Kong opened up a tray filled with chicken herb meat, U Mer Mer nearly "pengsan" !! U Mer Mer looked at her .. hahhh ??

U kau tim yourself

Today we have "Shogun" lunch buffet at One Utama. The variety of food was so vast that we can't have the chance to try out all of them.

The climax of our meal was when we had the ginseng tea. Su Mor Kong suddenly said, "I want it, I need it".

U Mer Mer paused and "stoned" by her statement ... Ooooo "that one" !!! .... hahaha...

U Mer Mer replied that "his" not yet ready ... Well, she never takes "no" for an answer. When she wants it, she WANTS IT !!! That's it !!!!

U Mer Mer said that his will only "come" later at night.

"I have what I want, I am satisfied, you want it - you figure out what to do yourself !!! You kau-tim yourself, I got what I want .... maybe you can use rubberband !!" ... as she replied.

Aiyoh-yoh-yoh !!!

The BIG DAY movie

First of all ... we also don't know how this "BIG DAY" movie started off.

We were discussing how to reduce our weight by not eating rice for the whole month of September. Eat only vegetables, drink soup - you know, just to get us slim down so that we could fit into our clothings & look "shape-2" for one of our friend's wedding dinner.

Suddenly, the idea of telling U Mer Mer family that the reason ... is for the ... "BIG DAY". As we predicted, U Mer Mer family misinterpreted it as U Mer Mer's BIG DAY (wedding day) ..... hahaha.

U Mer Mer's mom wants to do her hair, sis-in-law wants to get her hair do & get new clothings, brother eager to find out who is U Mer Mer candidate, etc ...

Wait till U Mer Mer youngest brother come back ... lagi teruk this U Mer Mer kena "grill" ....

Don't know whether U Mer Mer will kena "kidnap" at nite .. for keeping them in suspence .. hahaha

Told U Mer Mer's mom that she doesn't need to provide any more "milk powder" after the end of this month .... next month, U Mer Mer really need to eat grass liao .... hahaha..

purple neck tie - wow !!!

Last Monday evening, we suppose to exchange some of the DVD that we bought but the shop closed early.

Anyway, we went for a quick window-shopping. Su Mor Kong was searching for the purple color neck-tie to match with her purple color evening dinner dress.

Found one - very outstanding !!!

picture ... coming soon.

Su Mor Kong offered to pay for it, thank you.

nag voice - NO lar

U Mer Mer likes to hear Su Mor Kong's voice, her laughter especially when her whole face turned red laughing !! Hahaha, her touch, her facial and hands expression .... hmmmmm .... I think her whole being !!! Hahaha

Su Mor Kong did asked me whether I would get bored with her "nagging" or not ? With such a lovely & expressionanble voice - no one can get bored lar !!!

Trust

Su Mor Kong taught me a lesson - "trust".

We need to trust each other for our future. What happened in the past is not as important as long there is repentance.

Su Mor Kong ... Thank you for your trust and U Mer Mer wants to honor this "trust".