Angioplasty

Today Su Mor Kong's mom undergo angioplasty. The operation went very well - done less than 1 hour 30 minutes.

Glad that U Mer Mer can be with her family members during these period of "kang cheong" moments.

Su Mor Kong has a few distinct characters with her dad:
1) Very direct with matters
2) Very vocal in expressing feeling ... hahaha .. especially when he said, "I am in hospital !! My wife is undergoing heart surgery. She is most important thing now !!"

Nothing can replace Su Mor Kong

U Mer Mer just want to assure Su Mor Kong that when she share her personal matters, they are not a burden to U Mer Mer.

Prayer for SMK mom

Visited Su Mor Kong's mom 3 times today .. hahaha

The 3rd time was great - got Pastor Kok to come and pray for her.

Together with Pastor Kok, we sang songs of worship, Word of God and prayer. When we sang the song "God gives you peace", I could see and hear auntie sang with us and a real sense of peace just flow into her.

At that moment I received a sms from Su Mor Kong .....

(pict of sms)

Silently, I include her into our prayer & the song.

I sms her back telling her .... "Don't talk, just listen to our singing & prayer" ... and as I about to make the call, our singing has ended ... but I am sure that the peace of God is with her.

It was a wonderful moment. As we sang the songs, I experienced strong presence of the power of Holy Spirit going over my body.

Hospital - visit together

Visited Su Mor Kong's mom at hospital together instead like previous time, stay in car or at lobby

HTC - Secret Recipe

We went for the HTC training together and the Vitamin B was “Fruit of the Spirit - #1 LOVE” and was stick to a real fruit.

We were not the only couple that went together for the training as there were 2 more. Hmmmm .. I like it, work as a couple, training as a couple … doing things together as a couple hahahaha….

After the training, Su Mor Kong yearned for cakes at Secret Recipe …. But we also ended up with a delicious “cornxxxx something – sorry could not remember the name & “lamb shank” and Su Mor Kong paid for it …. THANK YOU.

The most delicious part of the lunch is not what type of food that we eat but our togetherness & being with each other.

Clay Factory with love

This morning we (English and Chinese Sunday school group) visited a clay factory in cheras. The owners are Christians and as she taking us for the factory tour, she uses Christ as a model of the clay process. One of the part which she explained described truly and deeply about Su Mor Kong.

Each clay handiwork needs to be put into a fire furnace in order to make it strong & durable. Some came out green and some came out red.


The clays are burn using 2 type of furnace. The electrical; which is much clean; and the gas furnace which has more higher temperature & lots of smokes.

Those clays that are burn using the electrical furnace will turn into green color which is much different of that in gas furnace which will turn out red.

Just like our lives, some came out “green” and for some “red” and yet both of them have gone through the fire. Christ loves both of them.


Su Mor Kong had gone through the “fire” and she is coming out as “red”. More refine, stronger, solid and ready to be use by Christ …. longer.

O yah …. people kept asking about Su Mor Kong’s “love” for U Mer Mer .. very beautiful !!! OF COURSE lar !!!

Su Mor Kong’s love for me is absolutely, definitely, guaranteed, fire-proof beautiful to U Mer Mer and not for sale or share-share one !!!

We were having fun & laughter as though we were the only people in the factory … hahaha. Our next project is to bring the little monkeys along & have our time together and “exploding” our creativity !!! hahaha…

Happy Deepavali

U Mer Mer knows that Su Mor Kong is very tired but she made the effort to see and meet up at the night and by the way, we are the only 2 chinese that stay up to celebrate Deepavali … hahahaha !!!

She shared about “team work” for the house works, how the little monkeys shared the house works together – ironing, folding the clothing, mop the floor, sweep the floor .. hahaha

As we were talking, we encourage and support each other and we realized that when Su Mor Kong just started to get “hot” for God, “stormy weathers” just seemed to come – haahhhh …. It is the works of the enemy. The enemy is so afraid of Su Mor Kong’s commitment, zealousness, passion for Christ that he tried to create obstacles for her.

Now as we discerned what is happening – we need to continue pressing forward & pray for the blood of Christ to cover us and our family members.

Believing that our God shall not put us to shame and shall deliver us from the net set by the enemy. Our God shall never leaves nor forsake us.

As Su Mor Kong & U Mer Mer are going through the fire – we shall come out refine for God to use us. Amen.

p/s. Little Penguin is still the best red wine. That nite we drank only half of the bottle cos’ it was not to our likeness – the smell and the taste of the spirit was too strong.

Happy Deepavali !!! Hahahaha

worship leading + spiritual barrier by enemy

U Mer MEr leads the Sunday worship and Su Mor Kong half-way came out from the Sunday School room and “admired” the worship ……. Leader hahaha …

She said very different from my past leading, very “yao eng” hahahaha She nearly wants to come and take my photo … hahaha Hmmmmm … U Mer Mer got “fan-cy” liao …

It is an encouraging for U Mer Mer to see that Su Mor Kong is getting “hot” for Christ even there are still some “stormy weather”.

Su Mor Kong, hang on to Christ – HE shall pull you through just as HE did to me many,many times.

Savings account

Su Mor Kong suggested that U Mer Mer opens a savings account and direct credit RM100 per month and be use as holidays or buying essential gadgets.

Another is to set aside RM300 (at this moment) for our meals.

U Mer Mer feels that it is a good practice.

LARGE currypuff

Su Mor Kong just gave me 2 very large size curry-puffs !!!

How large ????

Well ... it is longer and thicker than my notebook mouse .... hahaha



Thank you.

Crab meat

Su Mor Kong be able to crush the crab shell and pull out a perfect piece of the meat, but for U Mer Mer - disastrous ..... the meat was broken into small pieces !!!

U Mer Mer heart ache and near lost

U Mer Mer encountered 2 major setbacks.

1) When a member asked U Mer Mer about Su Mor Kong mom condition and I replied without Su Mor Kong consent.

2) When U Mer Mer lost an insurance deal that costs RM11,250 worth of commission !! When U Mer MEr told Su Mor Kong about it, she was very angry. She felt heart pain that I lost it and on why I am so complacent with my business !!

U Mer Mer pondered, does the "honesty is the best policy" still the best policy ? After going through it, U Mer Mer still believed it is the best. How could a healthy couple kept secret from each other ?

Yes .... mistakes are hurtful and nobody likes mistake. Dishonest is more worse.

Su Mor Kong didn't want to talk, sms or even meet up with U Mer Mer even pleading with her so many times.

The next day evening, U Mer Mer heart really can't take it anymore. Both my eyes turned red and having pain on the left chest. I could hear my heartbeat pounding and I thought, "God, I be seeing you soon"

On the 3rd day evening, I think; cos' I have lost count of days and time; I received a missed call from Su Mor Kong.

That night, I was totally drained out. I prayed that if God do take me away that night, I want HIM to take care of Su Mor Kong & little monkeys and she is not to be sad by what had happen to me.

On the 4th day, I still alive and I received a call from Su Mor Kong asking how am I doing. She tried to call me many times, either through handphone or my house phones but could not reach me.

Told her I off my handphone cos' I am "tired" but didn't know that my rooom phone not working..

She told me she was worried that night ... worried that I may commit suicide. She felt "lost" if I really did that. She drove to my home that morning to make sure I didn't do that stupid thing.

Another incident that happened on that week was, the 3rd little monkey was nearly went "lost" by the act of the maid !!

Thanked God for the neighbour quick responsed.

In that one week, we nearly "lost" two people who are dear to us.

Always need to pray & ask the Angels of God to keep watch over us day and night.

Throw away the key of U Mer Mer heart

Su Mor Kong told U Mer Mer that the key to U Mer Mer's heart had been throw away !!

In U Mer Mer's heart only has Su Mor Kong and nobody can enter and take it away.

Su Mor Kong proposal - wardrobe

Yesterday Su Mor Kong recommended to U Mer Mer a very unique type of wardrobe, one of the kind device with full ventilation, contamination free, anti microbia - everlasting undies !!!

Wow ... only she alone holds the "key" of freedom of usage !!! ... hahaha

How often can U Mer Mer enjoy the freedom ? She said, "Once a month !!" Wat Lau !!! Hahaha ...

Missed Su Mor Kong (across the border)

Leaving to the Thai border was torturing for U Mer Mer ... missed Su Mor Kong lar !!! Hahaha

When U Mer Mer reached the immigration border, my heart was very heavy and reluctant to cross over.

Hey !! I am about to enter a place which some people call it "paradise" (not true - please believe me !!) and yet here I am, feeling so not wanting to go in.

Quickly made a "last call" to Su Mor Kong before getting my passport verify.

It was like in a movie when a new wedded couples, and the husband is call for an assignment, to go somewhere far far and long period - scenes of hugging, kissing, "I miss you, I love you, Take care", can't letting go of each other kind of moment .... hahaha.

It was a very "sir pu ter" moment ....

Twinkle Twinkle Little Star

Do you know that Su Mor Kong can sing !!??!! .... and very well too !!

The 1st song that she sang to U Mer Mer over the phone is ..

Twinkle Twinkle Little Star
How I Wonder What You Are
Up Above The World So High
Like A Su Mor Kong In The Sky .. hahaha

Suprised Su Mor Kong

After hearing Su Mor Kong having stomach discomfort and been purging for so many times yesterday, U Mer Mer left home at 4:00 am and arrived at her place (hotel) at 8:00 pm

Sms her whether she wants to have morning breakfast with me or not. She called back, thinking U Mer Mer still blur-blur not knowing where she is .. hahaha..

Brought with me was the stomach ache powder !!

from .... both of us

This is the 1st. time that we give present to a friend with a note ..... "from both of us".

Wow .... so happy .... hahaha ..

... btw... they are 3 pairs of men socks.

Fresh fish at KK

Morning sunrise & Fresh fish in KK market on Sept 16, 2008. Went for "pasar-ring" after our arrival a day before.

Prawn mantis .... so huge !!

X'mas project - 1st meeting

Today - we had our 1st 2008 X'mas Carnival meeting.

Su Mor Kong is our committee secretary & FINANCIAL CONTROLLER ... very kau-lat position ler !! ... hahahaha ..

The meeting went on very well, the planning was so detailed and they know precisely what to do and what to expect at the end of the "tunnel" ... they can see the light ... hahaha...

Su Mor Kong & U Mer Mer stayed back to update the Planning Schedule, Committee contact list & preparing for the next meeting agenda.

After that, we went for our late lunch at Mc D - and .... we still discussing about the X'mas Carnival stuffs - watermelon contest, fashion show, singing, etc ..

During our dinner - we still discussing about the X'mas Carnival !!!

We are like "ministrying couple" hahaha.... our dating are self-less .. hahaha...

Su Mor Kong is the best secretary, from preparing the meeting minutes, power points, updating meeting agenda, fetching U Mer Mer for dinner and some more pay for the dinner !!!!

She is the "Best Secretary of the Century" !!!!

Diary of To Do List and a LOVE mark

Since U Mer Mer always forgetful and like to misplaced stuffs, Su Mor Kong gets U Mer Mer to buy a BIG size to-do diary !!

Started with QUOTE, daily business and church matters.

.... and at the back page onwards, will be things to-do between U Mer Mer & Su Mor Kong.

This diary is very valuable cos' it is sealed with Su Mor Kong "lipstick of LOVE" .. hahaha...

Soup of Vit L.O.V.E

U Mer Mer set up a mobile "dino cafe" and served only soup (tomato, pork, potato, salted vege, tofu, onion) and this soup has powerful mixture of vitamins ... namely ...

Vit L - longevity
Vit O - "oi" meaning love in cantonese
Vit V - vitality
Vit E - energy

hahaha ....


Su Mor Kong is fasting ler .. can drink soup .. only

Short pant - new color & style

U Mer Mer was asked, "Take off your pant ..... and ...... wear this" .... haiyah ... thought don't have to wear anything after taking off my pant ... hahaha ..

Size: 35 ???? hmmmm .. a bit loose, my waist should be lesser than that ... hahaha

Thank you Su Mor Kong .....

Went back home, U Mer Mer's family teased. They called my pant "sayang, sayang" (meaning love cos' bought by Su Mor Kong & with love ...hahaha

Maid said that she will wash it slowly and softly as prevent it from damage .. hahaha..

Mom & siter in law were surprised that U Mer Mer wear such pattern ... hahaha ... never see me wear like that ....

Powered neck tie

Finally ... the day has come for U Mer Mer to wear the beautiful & powered color (a present from Su Mor Kong) that matched Su Mor Kong evening gown !!!

Hmmm .... she looks so beautiful & fabulous during the dinner !!! Can't take my eyes off from her !!