Little fibroid

SMK went for a pap smear and discovered she had some fibroid.

SMK said maybe dued to UMM penetrations ....

Met C

While SMK went out for appointment with her new to be GM, suddenly, kids received a call that C is coming in 2 minutes.

The kids (L & B) told UMM to hide somewhere, but UMM told them, it is ok for UMM to be there.

C noticed that UMM is inside and he kept calling the kids to go but later C had to come inside cos S is still mandi.

Had a short chat with him.

After they left, SMK came back and we went out for our dinner.

China Dec 7 - 16 2009 The Story

UMM doesn't feel secured that SMK go to China alone to meet with the "wolves". So UMM followed.

Left Malaysia on 7/12/2009 evening but our flight is at 12:20 am (8/12/2009) and reached China airport (Beijing) around 6:15 am.

A) Peking Ducks

B) We conquered Great Wall.


C) Tianmen Square. As we walked from the place, we promised that we will conquered the AU market and not letting ppl like "fatman from Singapore" & "Siao Lang Din" push us around anymore.

D) National Park

E) National Zoo

missed SMK

This morning, UMM woke up and really "missed" SMK !!!

UMM said to himself, "why should UMM get upset with yesterday nite matter ? When UMM should spent more precious time, happy moments, quality time with SMK?, Why get caught up with arguments which we don't have answer to them ?"

Maybe today is December 1, 2009 and the thought of January 7, 2010 really scares UMM.....

Only trusting God in all things and believing that HE is able to bring the best in all things.

Love you YSL !!!

Passport and shopping

Suppose to go to China embassy alone, but at the nick of time received call from SMK that she wants to follow as she needs to go KL shopping.... wow ... much better .. hahaha

Managed to applied for 1 year China visa.

Then we went to KLCC for shopping.

She bought alot of clothings for Lyn + Belle (birthday this Saturday), Chew's nieces, Chew's sisters whom just came back, SMK nephews, Sson and for UMM.

Spent more than RM1,000 for all those gifts....

They are beautiful gifts and very expensive too !!!

But wait a minute - something is missing here !!!

She didn't get anything for herself !!!

Well - that's UMM's responsibility before Christmas !!!

During our "tong sui" dinner - we were going through the AU matter.

When UMM voiced out some of the details of why SMK and Din need to be in China, SMK was irritated and abruptly said ... "Don't interpret !!! I am not asking you"..

UMM was taken aback by this remark ! It is as though that UMM is trying to stop her from going to China.

It is just a discussion and flowing of thoughts, and a deep concern for SMK.

UMM understands that SMK has a very tight schedule before leaving to NZ and also to arrange the 2nd & 3rd shipments and SMK presence in China is very important.

UMM should not be worrying too much cos' God is there to protect and keep SMK from all harms.

Just pray for God's protection upon her while she is there...

Wedding ring box

As we got out from Isetan, KLCC lower ground floor, we saw a shop that sells a very beatiful glittering mirrors boxes.

One of the box shaped of a love.

SMK said, "Next time you know where to buy boxes" ...

Intimacy moment

This afternoon, after SMK had done her hair and after UMM finished some AU emails - we spent the evening relaxing alone.

We have not been pak toh for some time.

SMK said she need to go for a bath before zzz, actually she went to change into a very sexy zzz outfit !!!

When she came out, wow !! wow !! so sexy and beautiful !!!

A silky short dress, a purple color bra that tight around her neck.

We were suppose to take a rest but with such beautiful and sexy SMK and hunky UMM ... how to sleep lar ... hahaha.

We spent another 3 hours or so loving and caress each other.

It is good that a couple should spent their own intimacy time away from kids + office works + house works.

Parent object to NZ

As both of us visit SMK family, especially to give SMK mom belated birthday gift, SMK finally told her mom about her NZ matters.

The parent objected strongly about it.

Main concern of course - financial.

SMK mom asked UMM whether UMM is serious about SMK in his relationship. SMK asked her mom to list out conditions to marry SMK.

SMK mom said that she doesn't have any condition, such a kind mother in law ... hahaha..

SMK mom worried about leaving UMM here alone while SMK is in NZ with kids. SMK mom asked SMK whether she ever consider UMM matter ... hahaha

Herb

UMM mission for the morning .... boil the menstrual herb for SMK ... hahaha..

Wow ... needs 3 hours to boil it, longer than my "heaty soup" .. hahahaha

Hmmm ... smell very "herby" .. hahaha.

Fasting - day 3

This morning as prayed in tongue, the language is so much different from my usual. The language just flowing and flowing as though I am speaking a native language.

Today a bit tiring and heart beat seemed to be beating quite fast, had a bit of headche.
Around 3 pm, I was wondering whether I be able to finish through the 40 days or not.

Anyway, the reason and the purpose kept me going.

Anyway - by the time I am writing this entry, I feel ok.

Women Herbs and Ginseng

Bought some ginseng as a birthday gift to SMK mom which was on 17 Nov.

While waiting for the ginseng to be grind - UMM browse through some of the medicine and saw what UMM been looking for .... the herb for women menstrual period !!!

The shopkeeper must be guessing why a man look for such stuff... hahaha

Fasting #1

Started out with praying for the Blood of Christ to cover me + SMK.

Declaring the name of Christ.

Putting on the full armour of God.

Fasting

After hearing the testimony of a pastor from Uganda, UMM decided to fast alone.

UMM loved to have SMK fast together but due to her work and low blood pressure - better not. Anyway, UMM fasting also sanctify her as well.

Alan Tam Concert

SMK received 2 tickets for the Alan Tam Concert in Stadium Bukit Jalil.

When UMM went to collect the tickets and asked whether UMM home Astro name is listed ? The staffs said that it is not for everyone.

SMK name was picked up through random selection - wow ... so lucky !!

candle light cake

UMM wanted to surprise SMK when she is back from her "leng-leng" hair saloon.

Bought a piece of blackberry cake + 1 candle + 1 white grape sparkling, rushed back, turn on aircond, play her favourite Kenny G music, pushed out the sofa and dimmed the light.

Just an appetizer before taking her out for a dinner.

Anyway things turned upside down when SMK found that the emails were still in "draft"... got her upset.

At the end, we just have instant noodles.

It can be UP and down in just less than 2 minutes.

One moment we are "darling-darling" and another moment we are in "hush-hush" moment.

Is our emotions is so governed by ISO, HACCP or GMP ? If UMM doesn't do this or too slow to do this - then UMM instantly been issued a warning letter from the management ?

Hmmm ... don't know when UMM gets fired ??!!!!

i love u

What a wonderful + sweetest words that came out from SMK today as UMM carried her and put her on the living room sofa ..... "I love you" !!!!!

57KG

57KG ..... Sorry .... it is SMK body weight, not the AU weight lar !!!! Hahahaha

Sometimes, UMM get a bit "sensitive" when hear the word KG .. hahahaha...

SMK said that she managed to maintain at 57kg due to overworked (PM + AU matters).

UMM prayed that - great + super abundance of harvesting shall come from all sowing that been done.

AU - Pangkor Trip cancel

SMK cancelled her Pangkor trip for the 2nd time again, due to AU matters.

1st time - Documents preparation

2nd time - Singapore Intemediary comes down.

AU Siao Lang #2

We get heated up by this siao lang #2 !!

UMM prayed to God .... "God we shall not be bullied by the pagan siao lang !! We are the children of the Almighty God, no one shall take advantage of your children. Send Your mighty army and destroy these evil ppl".

Why UMM prayed at such, cos I remembered in the Bible where this type of incident happened before and God take vengence by HIS own hands.

UMM + SMK memory lane

Hmmmm ..... as I entering blog event, I read some of our memory lane events, thru' them, I am thankful to God on how HE has led both of us.

How our relationship blossom and turned into love. Thru' these journey, we met a lots of struggles, hurts, pain, joy, laughters, tears, misunderstandings, etc .... a journey that we need to past thru'.

UMM thanked God that it is HE who has brought us thru' the storms and HIS mercy and love for us. Without HIM, it is not possible for us to be together.

Tho' there will be a long journey for both of us to walk, with HIS help and HIS guidance - UMM + SMK will overcome any weather that to be.

God bless.

Double Earphones

SMK nowadays had her both ears plugged with handphones kits ... hahaha

If God created a human with 4 ears, think SMK will plug them all !!!

The AU has really kept both of us "on call" all the time.

send her home

We drove to KLCC to meet with a friend cum customer that both of us know. As a coutesy, we want to belanja him back.

As we walking out of the hall, SMK suddenly said, "UMM - go drive to the restaurant yourself, where else I follow his car"

Huhhh ????

Off course I know the customer doesn't know how to get to the restaurant, off course I know he is not from here - but please at least have the courtesy to share with UMM the idea 1st before making such decision. Further more this customer knows about our relationship as husband/wife.

When reaching the restaurant, my spoon & fork was placed opposite of SMK, away from them ... what is happening here ????

Never mind ... UMM thought, but when SMK start talking and her hand touching the customer arms and the customer react back ..... what is this ???? ...

At the end of the dinner, with a soft and polite voice, UMM told the customer to send her back home ...

Anyway, in the end UMM send SMK back.

In the car, SMK shouted at UMM for the reaction. That next time UMM doesn't need to follow her for business meal. This is not a business dinner, this customer knows about our relationship.

Why UMM reacted that way ??

Because UMM is jealous, UMM loves SMK too much, cares for her and don't want to loose her !!!

Before going to SMK's house, UMM opened the email - more not so good news.

UMM quickly sms Bible verse to encourage SMK, the story in the Book of Judges about how the Medianites army trying to attack Gideon, but as long God is with Gideon - he will be saved.

When UMM reached SMK house, she already doing the AU IMFPA matter, UMM was worried + scared + concerned.

How would she react when she found out about the email news ???

750KG no good news

Later in the afternoon, SMK received a call that the 750KG deal is not really successful yet cos' the person signed the NCND but no LOI !!!!

Wat lau !!!!

UMM was very sad and dissapointed. and more concern and worried for SMK especially the financial part.

That night, UMM quickly follow up with some of the web prospects that have called for enquiry, managed to get one sale - just enough to pay for the blood test $$ + the Shogun $$ expenses.

Just hope that SMK is willing to accept the $$.

Seeing her struggling these few weeks with AU really worried UMM.

Blood test

SMK picked up UMM for the blood test and to see doctor.

SMK paid for the blood test package which cost RM720 (package of 4x blood test). While guiding me, SMK said, "ah kong ..... before married ...hahahha"

750KG celebration

While going for her winter clothing shopping, SMK wants to celebrate for the 750KG success - so we went to shogun.

Even though UMM wants to pay for it, but SMK insist that she paid for it.

Went back home, intend to continue with AU works, but due to UMM extreme legs pain, had to cut short. SMK drove UMM back and buy some chinese medicine.

750KG taker

A great news that the 750KG was NCND by a buyer that we recommended. SMK was so happy !!!

SMK offered to give a RM5K for UMM to buy air ticket.

UMM refused the offer as UMM knew that SMK need to accumulate as much $$ as possible for the NZ.

Always thankful for her kindness.

Flower uncle and auntie

Since today also UMM uncle & auntie birthdays, SMK took UMM to buy gifts for them.

We chose 2 pots of firely red plants for them.

UMM mother birthday gift

3 months ago, SMK was in Sabah, SMK bought back some big natural pearl necklaces.

For herself, she only wear the small size pearl necklace and bracelt.

Today - SMK came to UMM house and gave to my mom for her birthday !!

She wear the pearl necklace on my mom. And wow ..!! my mom looks younger and bright ... hahaha.

Unselfishness, selfless and kind heart are always in SMK. She appreciate & give the best to others, while moderating her self in all things.

God bless you.

AU Dato and partners

UMM thnaked God that SMK was present during the AU meeting with the Dato's groups.

A groups of so called "expertise" came in (3 ppl) and start to talk about they know, the requirements, the methods, etc ...

SMK listened patiently to them, and start to analyze and break down part-by-part until they realized and said that their ways are traditional .... hahaha.

Then came another man, his method is what we want but his presentation is "one ketul - ketul" ... SMK as usual ask more and analyze for him. While talking with the 4th man, UMM observed that the other 3 ppl, including myself were "blur-blur" but trying our best to understand ... hahaha...

At the end of the discussion, SMK conclude the meeting by sharing the end result to all in point format. OoooOOoo .... now we all understand ... hahahaha.

Just a thought 01

The only time UMM has time to flip thru' newspaper is while in toilet.




This morning grabbed my attention of a comic date last weekends.

As I read the comic, it reflected how a normal and traditional family were brought up.

UMM will be still in that situation if not SMK teaches me about sharing family chores, techniques to do household and other stuffs.

All these years, UMM lived a life of too much of simplicity, self-care, "not bother" attitude. Since the day UMM's heart "jump" into SMK - life has been changing.

Even at times, UMM do get back into "old" attitude or mindset, SMK be there to re-align. Sometimes, it causes SMK to be worried, angry, upset, frustrated and fed up ... yet with God's grace and mercy, we were able to reconciled and pull them thru'.... although UMM admits that I still do get "off-track" now & then .... hahahaha.

International G Mandate

A proud day for SMK - A Mandate Letter !!

khau by AU miner

Wow !!! My dearest wife SMK really "keng-chau" !! Just on Messenger also people want to "khau" her !!!

Today, a seller of AU mine owner seemed to "indicates" his intention by calling her handphone the moment Messenger is off ... and some more called twice !!

SMK didn't answer the call.

UMM was on the other phone line, hearing the phone rings ..

Hmmm ... my dear wife really atrracts alot of bees, cos' she is really really very attractive lar !!!

Husband

As UMM sat down on a sofa, taking a rest, UMM prayed to God and asked God ....

"Lord, teach + make me a husband"

Not trying to be a good husband or anything but rather be a husband. Just what in the Bible ...

"Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her" - Ephesians 5:25.

A godly husband is what UMM asked from the Lord.

The last few days, UMM + SMK have been working very late + hard for the AU matters.

Like yesterday, we worked so hard that UMM needs to stay overnite at SMK's place and SMK woke UMM up at 06:47 am cos the AU's seller is online.

SMK also in a very tight schedule as she needs to be out to Ipoh around 7:30 am. Everything was so in a rush and hectic.

SMK took less than 1 minute to change into working clothings .. the beautiful all black color dress + black color long pant.

As UMM continue to monitor the AU matters at home, SMK will constant on phone to instruct and assist.

The moment was tense as we need to deal both the "grumpy" seller's side and "demanding" buyer's side.

Anyway, SMK constantly reminding + cautious UMM not to get too addicted with the AU matters.

UMM is not and won't get addicted with it. The purpose is very clear. It is a blessing from God, a blessing for UMM + SMK to:
1) Bless SMK with a new house in NZ (paid fully in cash)
2) Bless SMK that she doesn't need to constantly worried + susah + concerned with finances for matters pertaining to NZ
3) Bless UMM + SMK marriage
4) Bless PCMC
5) Bless God's ministry ... e.g. E.E
6) Bless both of family members whom had given us care + concern + love in our years of growing up.

Lord, thank You for being with us. Our life's journey we commit unto You. Amen

Jealous Skype

Hmmm ... not a very pleasant moment for UMM as UMM watched how enjoyable SMK having a skype conversation with Mr. David from AU.

Talk business - ok but when share personal details, UMM felt jealous liao.

This jealous is good in a sense that it show that someone is concern + cares + "kang cheong" with someone.

If someone does not have feeling, then it is just a normal non-committed kind of relationship.

UMM prayed that let this jealousy be a godly kind and not of evil and malicious.

Just like in the Bible when God is jealous with his peoples when they turned away and worship idols.

SMK darling, my jealousy is of love and not trying to tied you down or control you. If you ever have the feeling that UMM try to control you, please forgive me. Please share with me. Thnak you darling.

nephews and UMM nieces

SMK thought a lot and very far, UMM meant very, verrrrryyyy far !!

The house that we are going to buy in NZ, SMK also planned to use it for her nephews and also UMM's nieces when they grow up and when they decided to study in NZ.

So kind hearted & really selfless in all her thoughts and plans.

Love

Before laying down to zzzzz ..... SMK sms and wish UMM goodnight and ended with the word ..." with love fr SMK" !!! Wow !!!

Throughout our years of together, this is the 2nd time that SMK expressed her "love" to UMM. For some, this is just a norm, but for UMM they are so precious !!!

Hope that SMK could always ends it with such "love" hehehe...

Cooking with L

This is the 2nd time that Lyn helped UMM to prepared dinners !!

The 1st was sweet potato porridge (chau-tar), so redo the 2nd time. Afraid that it will get chau-tar, UMM kepts on stirring until the whole porridge turn into orangy color ... hahaha.

The 2nd time - fried rice. Lyn helped to fried the eggs. Ooo yah, Lyn made the omellette for the previous dinner.

A small step for a giant breakthrough .....

Did I mentioned .... great food & recipes ... hahaha

SMK recognition

UMM was so glad & jumping with joy when SMK shared that she will be honoured on Nov 09 on a signing ceremony and also certificate printed with her company logo side by side with the most prestigious company !!!

Wow !!! Praised God for all her hard worked and now she is reaping the rewards.

Congrats !!!

p/s... SMK is now on a quick-quick slim-down diets for the ceremony ... hahaha .. for UMM, SMK also "leng-leng" + "slim-slim" .... !!!

pant is back home

Yesterday when U Mer Mer called the Eagle Ranch informing them that I will be there to collect my "treasure", they said that the person in charge is on leave and be back today at 09:30 am.

So this morning when I called again, they said that the person in charge is on holiday. Anyway they assigned someone else to look into my matter.

At 3 pm, U Mer Mer called again and passed the line to an indian lady and said that she will look into it.

At 6:00 pm, U mer Mer called again and this time attended by a malay lady. She said she look into it She did called back 20 minutes later informing that she can only find a blue clor and a brown color. U Mer Mer told her that it is very important that I must get the "treasure" back. Then she said, " very personal stuff - I understand. I will cari until I find it".

When the clock ticked 08:00 pm and I still not yet hear her ... "c - liao" U Mer Mer need to sleep in P.D liao .. was thinking that I better help them to cari ler. U Mer Mer just prayed in tongue for awhile. Telling God to take care or else U Mer Mer cannot go back .. 10 minutes later, a call from the Eagle Ranch ... "Are you coming ? We have your "treasure". I lock it in the safe deposit box".

Wat lau ... no wonder they could not find it !!! Hahaha ... The caller was the person who suppose to be on holiday and with no apparent reason - he came back to Eagle Ranch.

U Mer Mer shouted , "Yes !!! Thank You, God !!".

Even God is mindful of U Mer Mer + Su Mor Kong "small-small stuff". Imagine how much more HE is in our "big-big stuff".

For some, this may be a kacang putih stuff, but for U Mer Mer .. this is our greatest "S" memory.

Picture later

darling with me as UMM travel

UMM will be leaving to Ipoh for 2 and a half days - packed my bag with clothings, Bible, books and most important ... my darling with me ... hahaha.

Belle diary

Today Belle asked me to write on her personal diary (autograph) ... she said that I am the only male allowed to write.

Wow ... I am deeply touched and honoured for such priviledge.

Hatyai - anger and shame

Anger + shamed filled UMM heart so tragically that UMM doesn't dare to look into SMK eyes the whole evening.

UMM walked around and watch TV till late even though was very tired and nothing to watch on TV cos' UMM doesn't know how to face SMK.

UMM went into Hatyai Watson trying to buy "c" and intend for the nite "s".

SMK rebuked UMM gently not to buy and have the "s" in mind. For that instant moment, shamed + anger flowed in.

SMK is my wife-to-be and UMM is to to sanctify her, set her apart from the world. UMM to gives special protection, special care, for special attention, for a special purpose .... as the Bible says ....

Love Your Wife Sacrificially

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself up for her; that He might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, that He might present to Himself the church in all her glory, having no spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that she should be holy and blameless.

(Ephesians 5:25-27)

Thru' this incident - UMM remembered how the Bible always teaches us to safeguard our mind and to resist and flee from all evil. Let this be a lesson (a very pricey one) to UMM especially.

Darling SMK . . . . I am deeply regretted for my sinful actions and for not uphold you in the way of the Lord. May you forgive me.

Eternally,
UMM

Uncle Bob and Hatyai

10/10/09:

Left to Penang to meet up with Unc Bob for the chicken chop business. As we reached Penang early, SMK brought UMM to "Restoran Seafood Weld Quay" for lunch. Ordered the following and costs RM52.00

(pic)

After listening to Unc Bob's boss (Mr.Lee) sharing his loooong stories, we left at 04:00 pm and reached border around 5 pm. Parked the car just at the border for RM4 per day. Bought the taxi fare at RM50 one way to Hatyai town (around 1 hour ride) and at same time, bought the Lee Garden hotel voucher for RM115.00 twin sharing including breakfast.

As we approaching the Hatyai taxi centre, we saw a restaurant called Kaneng. The food were good and not expensive.

After the heavy dinner, we went for "The Only One" massage parlour which is just next to the taxi centre.

Well ... we had a lots of bone crackings session ... hahaha.

SMK bought a pink + white knitted shirt, 3 sets of Naruto toy sets and for UMM a battery-operated shaver + a torch light. Oooo yah ... Listerine was very cheap, so we bought 5 at RM13.9 each. Here around RM18-RM21.

Moon cake family photo

For the very 1st time, we have taken a group family photo together with SMK family. While taking the photo, SMK reached out her hand and hold mine.

We also took photo together at SMK parent's house.

Thank you .. SMK

Wedding photos

We were discussing of taking our wedding photo around December before SMK left to NZ. UMM told her that his hair may not grow on time, SMK said never mind ... most important shape must reduce ler ... hahaha..

SMK likes the on in P.J which took very beautiful photos and setting.

Melaka jammed up

Took us more than 1 hour just to reach the town. Jam was so terrible.

Met up with SMK sister and bro-in-law. Could not get ourself into any restaurant as people are queing up to the roadsides.

Had cendols and pumpkin cakes.

Ooooo .. the tray, the shop didn't open and as we asked another shop ....crazy price !!! We didn't buy any.

Eagle Ranch

We left to Eagle Ranch , Port Dickson for our holiday and later planning to Melaka to buy the s trays.

It was cloudy when we reached E.R and waited until 4 pm before the room is available for us to check in. While waiting we played fuzz-ball. SMK beats me in that 2 rounds of games !!!

Well ... she is "the man" lar .. hahaha So the loser needs to obey all her commands lor .. hahaha ..

Dipped ourselves in the pool and had our dinner at the cafe. Food was fantastic especially with SMK.

During the nite, UMM performed dances in the new boxer and the sarung that SMK bought for UMM.

The sarung can fit both of us inside it .. hahaha..

During our intimacy moment, SMK for the very 1st time use her finger and draw "SMK loves UMM " on UMM butt !!!!

This is the very 1st time that SMK expressed herself to UMM.

And this is also the 1st time that UMM has "S". A little bit kelam-kabut during the process ... paiseh...

We had 1 at nite, 1 at midnight and 1 at the morning.

ooooo ... yah ... UMM forgot at left the boxer at the E.R but thank God, they found it and kept for UMM.

Sushi Lyn

Tonite ... Lyn has turned into Sushi Chef.

She made sushi rolls out from cucumber, chicken floss, crab filament, eggs, cheese sausages.

All of us took part: Su Mor Kong (shopping, cooked rice, mix ingredients, fried eggs, washing), Sson (clean the table), Belle (chef's assistant) and U Mer Mer (tea lady .. oopss ... tea man).

The dinner was great as it involved everyone in the family.

THE beautiful girl

While swimming at the club pool, U Mer Mer called Su Mor Kong "hey beautiful girl". Su Mor Kong said, "you must mentioned the name Su Mor Kong lar, if not how do i know it's me .. hahaha"

U Mer Mer, "darling .. no need one, you are THE beautiful girl !!, others just "a" and not "the"!!"

As we about to do our last swimming laps, U Mer Mer stroke Su Mor Kong's leg for "charge up" .. hehehe and Su Mor Kong grabbed my butt to charge hers ... hahaha...

mooncake to UMM family

Immediate after landed and went back for a quick shower, we drove back to U Mer Mer's house to give the mooncake to UMM family.

Quick-quick I come, quick-quick I go .. hahaha

coming back: tawau

The long awaiting return of Su Mor Kong has finally come . . .

U Mer Mer surprised Su Mor Kong by blowing a lots of balloons and laid in her bedroom. Suppose to fill up the living hall, but due to time factor, go for the room ... hahaha

When U Mer Mer reached the LCCT, U Mer Mer drove into the taxi lane and without putting on the seat belt. Well .... stop by the traffic police. Had to give my driving licence to him. As he about to issue the summon, U Mer Mer apologized verbally to him.

The Lord has mercy upon U Mer Mer and the police man just let me off the hook without summon. . . wow ... what an intervention from God or else double summons (no seat belt & going into taxi lane).

mooncake fron son in law

Sending the mooncake to Su Mor Kong's mom was really blessed.

Su Mor Kong's mom said that she wished that I could become her son in law ... I said, "God bless" .. hahaha.

Marriage Preparation

Sept 6: We were shopping for our "figurine sets" at Sunway Pyramid. The moonlight background was attractive and also the bridegroom carrying the bride. Also pillow with out photo printed on it.

Holding hands in shopping centre + CG

For the very first time, Su Mor Kong & U Mer Mer went to shopping centre and holding each other hands in public ... yahooooooo !!!

We eat and eat (Pritzel, pancake & Fish Manhatthan) and later Su Mor Kong went to Nichi and tried out 2 dress. The 1st out, U Mer Mer giving her a 2 thumbs up from outside the fitting room ... hahaha

Then we saw a young couple where the guy would examine closely the dresses, hanging another dress on his shoulder while his gf browse for more stuffs .... well .. UMM got the "message" .. hahahaha

After awhile, we saw a guy poke his head inside a fitting room's curtain; leaving his entire body outside; to check his wife "try-out" clothing ..... hmmmm ... another thing that I need to learn.

After coming home for a short break and wrapping a present for a friend father, we headed to CG in seperate car.

At CG, we sat next to each other - sharing the Bible & CG notes. Our responses and action were so in-tune. At times when we gave funny answers, we will look at each other ... hahahaha.

At the CG - the studies spoke to UMM - the incident just happened to UMM in the same morning at church (jealousy).

herbal drink

Su Mor Kong boiled a herbal drink - meant for cleansing.

The BEFORE and AFTER

We were chit-chatting and these topic pop up, the before and after effect of U Mer Mer's life ...

1- Watched a lot of TV / Huhh ??? What's on the TV program - don't know ler.
2- Woke up at 8:30 am (normal lah) / 8:30 am (abnormal) - 06:00 or 6:30 am (normal).
3- Wore the same underwear for straight 3 days (cool) / change everyday .. hahaha
4- Never gaggle with mouth wash / Gaggle 2 x a day or even more before reaching Su Mor Kong house ... hehehe
5- Zzzzz at the 1st paragraph at the 1st page / Finished a whole book.
6- 92 kg / below 86 kg and targetting 82 kg.
7- Lesser hair / more hairy ... hehe

more to come ... hehehe

Blow kiss

Just as UMM about to leave the camp apartment for the games session, Su Mor Kong gave U Mer Mer a blowing kiss as she about to close the door !

Wow .... mana boleh tahan and have heart to leave her ler, went in and hug her and cuddle her .. hahahaha

Anyway ... still needs to go cos' they are waiting .. hahahaha

Meeting with Datuk AU

Later - we are going to meet up with datuk for the AU matter. UMM prays for God's favour and blessing and wisdom for this matter.

marriage status in facebook

As to show UMM commitment and wade off all "female bees" ... hahaha, UMM changed his facebook status to "married".

Don't know how it happened, UMM received alot of congratulations and "is it true?" greetings from most of UMM females facebook list ... !!! Even UMM brother also msn UMM ... hehehe

Went to church for prayer meeting, one of the uncle came and shook UMM hand and congratulates UMM ... wat lau !!!!

Told SMK .... "morrr ler" - must get married liao !!!! Hahahaha ...

rhyme on door bell

U Mer Mer told mom that he needs to install the door bell cos ....

When my "da" ling comes,
my "da" ling can "ling-ling" the bell,
when she "ling-ling" the bell,
my "da" ling can comes in ....... hahahaha

SMK came for soup

Su Mor Kong came to U Mer Mer house to drink soup

Car no petrol and UMM brother

U Mer Mer car's run out of petrol at the most busiest stretch of Shah Alam road. We had to sit by the road side and with an umbrella covering us.

We were having a romantic time together at the most "exotic" place .. hahaha

Suddenly Su Mor Kong saw someone standing next to my car ... UMM 2nd brother lar !!! Wow ... imagine that, out of no where, he bumped into these 2 lovely couple ... hehehe.

Su Mor Kong get a ride from my brother as she is rushing for her appointment. What a way to meet up with my family members .... one by one ... hahaha..

Another good thing was that someone call UMM for the e-commerce enquiry ... blessing in diguised for both happy moment.

UMM face has a curve

Su Mor Kong said that UMM face is smaller and have more curve ... hahahaha.

Su Mor Kong nearly fallen from the tread-mill when she tried to answer her handphone. U Mer Mer was doing the weight lifting and was shocked and scared ...... thank God she didn't fall .. phewwww ....

SMK telephone to thank UMM mom

Su Mor Kong asked U Mer Mer to call mom so that she could thank her for the herbal drink that UMM's mom boiled for her.

Before putting down the phone, UMM's mom tells UMM to go back home later and send sea-cucumber and more of the herbal drink to her future daughter in law ... hahaha

International & Domestic Trade appointments

Now both of us are really getting mega with our titles .... hahaha

Y.B Su Mor Kong handles International Trade & Industry and Y.B U Mer Mer handles Domestic Trade & Family Affairs.

Looks like our job titles are much heavier than LCEC ... hahaha

SMK very "high" hehehe

Today Su Mor Kong is very high spirited ... hahaha..

1- Even she doesn't want to j.v the pap smear project but the owner still wants her to be in !!
2- Su Mor Kong BRS boss called her "boss".
3- And we swam 11 laps !! and .. not feeling tired at all !!

Exercise met pastor W

No one would imagine that we could bumped in pastor W at 5:54 pm lake walk. So early ler and some more bumped into him twice !!

Anyway, we don't really bother much what people think of us anymore. We are indeed a beautiful couple ... hahaha.

Sexy

Wow !!! Today, Su Mor Kong was so sexy with her dress !!! Can't take my eyes off from her lar !!!

Even her close friend from USA also admired her .. hahaha.

Another matter that made U Mer Mer so happy is when her friend asked whether Su Mor Kong has a boyfriend or not ... Su Mor Kong said ... "Yes".

Another answer that made Su Mor Kong's friend "melted" was when Su Mor Kong told her that U Mer Mer will be following her to N.Z .... hehehe

UMM self control

Tonight, Su Mor Kong + U Mer Mer have a heart-to-heart talk about our relationship, kids relationship & "C"'s matters.

U Mer Mer shared about his jealousy and uncomfortable when each time UMM knows that SMK is with "C". The "with" may be because of kids events, or sometimes "ex in law family matters".

SMK explained that she have to attend certain functions with "C" due to the kids feeling.

Even though UMM knows that but somehow the discomfort is there. UMM told SMK that he often pray to God that HE strengthen and give UMM the self-control and peace concerning this matter. Realizing that these things are bound to happen when UMM gave his love to SMK at the very 1st place.

It's hard but love conquers all.

Gold Medal

Lyn won the gold medal for the tae-kwan-do competition !!

After been competing for many times, finally her effort and SMK persistent registering both Sson and Lyn paid off !!

SMK - you are the best !! You deserved a super-gold medal !!

White + white = wow

White creamy long pants + shirt ..... Su Mor Kong is soooooo beautiful like always. U Mer Mer saw her from the back but have clearer sight when she went to the hotel to pay for her 2 Indon participant check-out bill.

Wow !!!! So slim & tall ... hehehe

God spoken to us

This morning Sunday sermon really hits UMM !! Especially when the pastor "J" illustrate the meaning of patience - it means looooong suffering ..

When pastor said that, UMM hide his face cos' this is something that UMM must act upon. UMM prayed to God asking God to pour HIS grace, mercy and love so that UMM be able to love SMK more & more each day.

SMK later shared with UMM concerning the sermon, "Wow .. our Father really fast teaching us lar .. just last Thursday we had dispute and this Sunday "kena" laio .. hahaha"

After hearing what SMK statement, UMM realized that this is not the 1st time. We have had many time experienced it. The teaching or correction or reconcialation comes from Sunday sermons, CG or at times from Our Daily Bread.

Sometimes SMK would ask UMM to "ask" our FATHER what to do ...

Angry over chicken rice

This morning U Mer Mer was really saddened and hurt by Su Mor Kong remarks and action.

U Mer Mer's value is less than a price of 3 packs of chicken rice.

Before reaching Su Mor Kong's house, U Mer Mer gets scolding for buying chicken rice instead of fried kueh teow (the stall closed) - just because she already bought them without me knowing it.

And when U Mer Mer reached Su Mor Kong house, she raised her voice and blaming U Mer Mer for it again with a very upset facial expression.

When U Mer Mer saw it, it hurts.

It seemed that Su Mor Kong has a lot of anger towards U Mer Mer.

Is Su Mor Kong starting to despise U Mer Mer ?

Kluang - Frog meat

While trying to go back to the same restaurant that we had dinner before, Su Mor Kong saw a restaurant serving frog meat.

During our conversation, both of us had not been having frog meat dishes for more than 10 years liao. Well this evening is our lucky day, not only the size of the frog is big but delicious too.

After the "froggy" dinner, we headed for thong-sui. The ginger soup is not as "gingering" and the peanut-ball skin is bit hard.

Softer snore

Su Mor Kong observed that U Mer Mer's snoring has gone softer unlike in NZ .. hahaha..

Kluang - The famous Kluang Coffee

With the GPS search, U Mer Mer found the famous "Kluang Coffee - Railway station" !! U Mer Mer heard from a very good friend and read somewhere in the newspaper before.

Wow .. U Mer Mer really feels so excited and with high expectation. When I reached there, the kopitiam was filled with people and it makes me more and more eager to try it !!!

Choosen a place to sit and ordered a cup of coffee. No roti-bakar or nasi lemak cos' still on diet program.

While waiting for the coffee, I browse thru' the newspaper cutting about the famous Kluang railway station coffee and also some of the photos of the owner's family.

At last, my coffee is put in front of me. I took a smell of its aroma - good and with a slow sip .... aiyoh ... lost to Su Mor Kong lar !!!

Su Mor Kong's coffee is much better !!!

bloated

On our way to Kluang, we stop at roadside for 1 D24 durian and 1 "99" durian.

When we reached Kluang town, we ordered chicken rice + char-siew and "swee-kau". Both of us really eat until our atomach bloated .. hahaha.

UMM birthday with SMK at Kluang

Celebrating U Mer Mer's birthday with Su Mor Kong at Kluang, Johor.

Su Mor Kong prepare a surprise birthday gift for U Mer Mer .. a very wonderful Yellow-stripes shirt and a yellow-tie to match with it.

She bought it and kept it for a long time.

Not only the gift, Su Mor Kong also belanja U Mer Mer makan ...

Thank you darling ..... God bless you.

handphone

While stopping for a steam-peanuts at a rest place, we bought 2 same handphone together at a very good price ... we are very excited !!

Botanic Club Experinces

Aug 01:
Today, we (SMK, Sson, Lyn + Belle) went to the club house for swimming. The fun part was that U Mer Mer didn't need to pay $10 for the entrance ... the staffs thought that I am in the family package ... hahaha ... actually - I am ... hehehehe

U Mer Mer show Su Mor Kong his triangle shape swimming trunk, she asked me to buy a squarely long swimming trunk.

Her professional advice really paid-off ... hahaha

The most wonderful part was when Sson + Belle continuously kissing Su Mor Kong's cheek thanking her for preparing bee-hoon, longan, drinking water, clothings for them .. hahaha .. Lyn couldn't do that cos she has flu.

U Mer Mer also felt like joing them ler but .... later .. hahaha

Aug 02:
Went to the club house again. The happiest moment for me was when Lyn personally gave me cherry tomato to eat ( twice ).

Su Mor Kong enjoyed her gymnasium workout. She is getting firmer + firmer .. hahaha

HACCP - eggs cleaning

Su Mor Kong audit U Mer Mer on HACCP - Cleaning and washing eggs !!

Not only that , SMK sit with a rotan cos' U Mer Mer needs to dry the egg by shaking at the correct way. If not - kena rotan !!!

LCCT miracle

Arriving at LCCT and just as U Mer Mer step down from the plane and landed on the ground, U Mer Mer suddenly have this deep "miss Su Mor Kong" feeling. Just turned on the handphone and then .... you would not believe it !! - Su Mor Kong called me !!!!

Normally I won't turn on the handphone immediately as I would wait until I got into the aircond hall but tonight ... I really don't have the answer ler ..... "6 sense", I think .. hahaha

Su Mor Kong said that even if we are to be thousands miles away, she still can "see" where and what I do ... hehehehe.

Aiyoh Su Mor Kong, don't need to be thousands miles away lar, near-near lar !!!

Objective behind a question

In the middle of one hot sun, U Mer Mer received a call from Su Mor Kong in a form of a "out from nowhere" question ... "Ask Mr.BahKutTeh how he managed the cashier system"..

Huhh ? Why ask people such thing?

As I sat down, reflecting the "whys" .... suddenly dawned on me - our chicken chops business !!!

So when I called her much, much, much later - U Mer Mer able to answer Su Mor Kong additional "out from no where" questions ... hahaha

Left UMM underwear at SMK room

Hmmm ... what a "pai-seh" morning to remembered. In hurry to rush for an appointment, U Mer Mer accidentally dropped his underwear at Su Mor Kong's room.

More "pai-seh" was that Belle called me and informed that she is the one that found it !!! ... so malu .....

lawyer mother blah blah blah

The evening spent with Su Mor Kong + Lyn for a brisk walk at the lake. Had not been exercising with Su Mor Kong for a long time. The walk was refreshing.

At the dinner, the protective + supposed to be employ young lawyer's mom gave Su Mor Kong ... talk alot of nonsense like - o my daughter never taken a public transport before lar, u promised to fetch her around lar .... blah-blah-blah .....

After putting down the phone, we had a "family board of directors" meeting .. hahahaha...

U Mer Mer suggest that if the mother call again, tell her to talk to Su Mor Kong's mother... hahaha. Then the kids trying to impersonate as Su Mor Kong's mother ... hehehehe..

Then Su Mor Kong received sms from the daughter (lawyer) saying that she could not take up the job offer.

U Mer Mer said, "sms her that she had made a wise choice" ... hahaha
Lyn said, "sms her ... gua bo song liao" ... hahaha

3 minutes b4 midnite

It is about 3 minutes to midnight ....

What is inside my mind right now ? Su Mor Kong.

"Watching" her from all the photos that we have taken in the past. Her smile, her laughter, her "hmmm" face gesture while resting her fingers on her cheek, and ooo yah .. her "angry" face ... hahaha...

When Su Mor Kong said she hope that the herbalife diet could remove the face pigmentation, U Mer Mer would always said in his heart, "What pigmentation ? Su Mor Kong .. you always beautiful. I don't see pigmentation, I see beauty."

Su Mor Kong is always beautiful in my heart. Each time when I am down, I would just close my eyes and "see" her.

Su Mor Kong is so special and if U Mer Mer could feel the warmest of her heart, I believed that God will also feel it much deeper cos' Su Mor Kong is HIS creation.

Loose more weight

After the matrade, Su Mor Kong called U Mer Mer to says that she is loosing more weight .... 58.3 kg !! And when she asked U Mer Mer to weigh .... U Mer Mer is 83.5 kg !!

You see, we have modified our diet intake. We eat more protein, vegetables & low carbo substances and of course herbalife once a day.

BioTech at Matrade

Today we met with the BioTech and also with a prospect from Singapore. Though we have not contract with the prospect but Su Mor Kong and U Mer Mer didn't loose heart.

We believe that the medical product has great potential.

We were having the same thought - expand to NZ's market.

Will put this matter in prayer.

Club membership

Su Mor Kong received a call from a friend offering to nominee her as club membership as her friend be away.

For the whole family, the monthly fee is only $84 ....

I don't know man ..... God's blessings are pouring down like rain !!!! Hahahaha So blessed !!!

AU buyer call

Su Mor Kong received a call from David concerning the AU.

Bio tech share

With the high negotiation skill that Su Mor Kong has, she got a no-capital share in the bio-tech company.

3% ? - No
5 % ? - No

10% !!! Something that Su Mor Kong didn't expected ... hahaha

Really a blessing from God. Thank you God.

broke shaker + drawing

U Mer Mer broke the plastic shaker and it splashes all over the floor .... what a mess.

During dinner, kids + U Mer Mer were playing "face-body-clothing" matching drawing game. Very funny ...

left: U Mer Mer . right: my drawing of Belle (wrong hair style) ..

drawn by Lyn for belle.

left: U Mer Mer drawing right: Lyn drawing

weekend with family

U Mer Mer left to Su Mor Kong's place around 10:40 am and got back home at 11:00 pm ... hahaha...

Went for cycling, visit T.Boon and had durians + magosteen !!!

New kites

U Mer Mer bought 2 new kites and play with Sson + Belle. Su Mor Kong + Lyn were zzz at home as Lyn not feeling well and Su Mor Kong too tired.

When we went back to the house, both of them still zzzz ... Sson rang door bell 5 times only then Su Mor Kong woke up. Wow !!! really tired ler.

Sson forgot that he had a birthday party to go to, so quickly I sent him there. And quickly I go back to fetch them for dinner.

After Old Town, we went to Giant to get a gift for T.Boon baby and later fetch Sson back.

waiting and scolding

Waiting is the most heart-aching moment. It makes you to be very "mang-chang", angry and frustrated in love.

For Su Mor Kong, when the driver drives too slow she gets :( and for me ... late seeing her after not seeing her for 6 days really makes me full of anxiety + eagerness .... hahaha

U Mer Mer had the car washed and vacuum ... hehehe.

U Mer Mer went back to take a bath, gaggled listerine, brush teeth and put on the special white color shirt.

O yah .... a stalk of purple colour rose. When the florist finished wrapping the rose, she said that purple rose is romantic. Wow ... made a right choice ler.

The estimated time of arrival (ETA) were changed from 03:00 pm to 04:00 pm and then to 05:00 pm ..

Anyway, due to U Mer Mer high eagerness, I already left my place at 12:30 pm. While waiting we smses and the content of or smses you will find in other entry.

At last .... Su Mor Kong has arrived at MP** !! The moment of hugging + kissess ... but have to wait later lor cos got other people with her.

Su Mor Kong bought alot of rambutan, mangosteen and two 101 durians given by a customer. With her and her staff luggage and the fruits - it had taken alot of space in U Mer Mer's small size car.

While leaving from MP** to Giant, U Mer Mer made some sudden stops and wrong turning. And had a big scolding from Su Mor Kong cos' U Mer Mer does not remember how to go to Kepong Baru for the ginger fish stall even been there a couple of times.

Anyway, reached Su Mor Kong place - clean up the house a bit and sleepover at the sofa.

U Mer Mer didn't retaliate or answer harshly to Su Mor Kong, knowing that she has been away 6 days for outstation works, been stucked in a car driven by a "tortoise", and most of all too tired.

I recall a Bible verse something like ...“love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things......"

SMS - PAhang comeback

SMK: "leaving now, expect arrive 3pm"
UMM: " ok darling"

SMK: "they stop pray first, stick to 4 pm lah"
UMM: "ok"

SMK: "now just arrive mosque, haiyo i think 2pm plus only can leave bahau"
UMM: "aiyoh .. like tat .. hmmm you also go pray to our God lor .. hahah"
SMK: "haha"

UMM: "darling .. you got proper place to wait while waiting?"
SMK: "we 5 of us go buy fruits lor"
UMM: "ok tat is good'

SMK: "now leaving, 5 pm MP**"
UMM: "ok"

SMK: "follow behind big lorry so slow, the driver not take over, i will be late. i m angry liao"
UMM: "darling .. tell the driver tat you take over ! cos your hunky muscular darling here cannot tahan waiting liao, no see darling for 5 days liao - very angry + tau hong liao .. haha"

UMM: "reaaly teruk lar this fella .. don't know tat i missed you so much mer ?"
SMK: "yahlor haha"

SMK: "this grp really teruk, fr 1:30 pm sembyang till 2:45 pm!"
UMM: "wow .. they do talk alot with their god ..hahaha .. took so long ..."

UMM: "now i also need to meditate to calm myself .. too angry with the driver liao .. hmmm maybe i sing a song ..... " o my siow ling, o my siow ling. o my beautiful siow ling i missed you so much, quickly come home, quickly come home. me very missed you liao ..." hahah"
SMK: "ha ha ha"

SMK: "we can arrive by 5 pm. now just enter seremban highway"
UMM: "ok"

UMM betray SMK on dieting .. hahaha

Yesterday night, U Mer Mer ate 2 "siu-mai", 2 fish balls and 5 chicken wings on his diet.

So this morning when Su Mor Kong asked U Mer Mer - kena lar !!!

Su Mor Kong said, "If you can't control your up (mouth), how could you control your down part ??!!

cannot tahan

U Mer Mer called Su Mor Kong during the night telling her ...."I am not a person who is simply cannot tahan one, but not seeing you really make me cannot tahan !!!"

It actually sound macho + funny when I told her in hokkien ... hahaha.

I could hear Su Mor Kong laughing and laughing so loud at the other end .. hahahahha

bathing + handphone loudspeaker

Today U Mer Mer's bath is full of power and excitement ... hahaha..

Talking on handphone while taking a bath !! We put our handphone on loud speaker so that she could hear surround & real live of bathing ... hehehe

And some more Su Mor Kong asked to to bend here lar, there lar .. hahaha

Hmmm ... wish I have a video call phone, can see mah .... hehehe

MD - Mother - Wife

Were sharing with Su Mor Kong of her role and we came to this schedule ...

09:00 am to 05:00 pm = Managing Director ( 8hrs)
05:00 pm - 10:00 pm = Mother (5hrs)
10:00 pm - 09:00 am = Sexy Wife ... (11hrs) hahaha

Wow .... 11 hours of excitements & high performances .. hehehe .. thank you darling ....

2 weeks away ?? ooOOooo NO ! NO !

While having a tele-conversation with Su Mor Kong (who is outstation), she mentioned to me that the MP** may want to have a straight 2 weeks audit outstation.

Su Mor Kong advised the MP** head against it cos' it would be very tiring. For U Mer Mer, it is not work tiring but the one that is waiting for his dearest darling to come back would be "crazy" lar !! hahaha ..

One day without Su Mor Kong already feeling so lost, 3 days = "tau-hong", 5 days = "kee-siau", more than that ??? .... jia-lat + kau-lat !!! Hahaha ..

The afternoon before U Mer Mer send her off, we were hugging + holding + cuddling + kiss-kiss each other ... so hard to be apart ler :(

SMK apartment UMM house

While searching for our new home, Su Mor Kong came out with a plan that when she move there, she just buy an apartment.

Later let U Mer Mer buy a bigger house or bungalow and invite Su Mor Kong + kids to move in. This will be more receptive and acceptable for the kids.

Su Mor Kong always think and plans matters for U Mer Mer. Thank you darling.

U Mer Mer was really happy this evening:

1) S helped to blend + B help to scoop and shakes our diet meals ... hahaha

2) L talked to me a bit, even that U Mer Mer already happy

Su Mor Kong was very tired that evening and left the kids with their homework + soup time with me.

Thank you Su Mor Kong for your trust and opportunity.

Love someone too much

A very good friend told me a few weeks ago after a passing of our good friend. He said, "Never to love someone too much or else when the person passed away - you will be at lost and grief".

With what U Mer Mer is experiencing with Su Mor Kong, this was my reply ... "I don't believe I could live with someone I don't love too much"

The answer stunned my friend and make him to acknowledge and think of what relationship or marriage is all about.

Su Mor Kong ... you are my all and my love to you is overflowing day by day ...

UMM 1st time counseling

This is the 1st time that U Mer Mer counseled someone concerning a family matter.

The questions and counseling hit to the direct core problems of that person. He can't hide and seek from the real core problems.

Our friend, Vincent was at "open mouth" with awe with my advices and counsel .. hahaha. I tell you, men really, really teruk when giving counseling cos' we tend to talk other business but having difficult time getting into the core topic... hahaha.

Thanks to Su Mor Kong whom had drilled me and sharing her thoughts and wisdom to me or else .. I also be blur-blur and don't know how to counsel.

If Su Mor Kong was with us, I believe the two of us big guys with also have the "open mouth" moments .. hahaha

Thanks darling

Herbalife

Another new beginning for us - we really going on diet !!!! Hahahaha



Yesterday night, U Mer Mer called Su Mor Kong, "Darling, I got the product liao ... now we cannot say "never mind lar .. tommorrow only we start diet" ... hahahaha

AU golden and fruitful Meeting

Today - we finally meet up with our Seller directly. Su Mor Kong handled the meeting well and the timing for the whole arrangement was Godly.

The licencing, the peoples, the discussion are all in order. Not too early, not too late. Everything falls in right precept.

We thanked and praise God for the Open Heaven. Setting everything in right order and timing.

After meeting with Datuk, Su Mor Kong + U Mer Mer were "jumping" for joy ... hahahaha ..

Glory be to God on high !!

shorter short pant

This morning, U Mer Mer wear a rather shorter short pant cos' the other one was still in laundry.

Su Mor Kong also realized that and while U Mer Mer purposely bend down to pick up thing, Su Mor Kong with a quick and swiftly movement trying to pull my pant down !!!! Hahahahaha .. try twice but could not succeed ler ... haiyah ... U Mer Mer should wear more loose-loose pant next time .. hahahaha

surrender to u-char-kueh

U Mer Mer was rebuked by Su Mor Kong for "surrenderred" his promise to fast just because of one u-char-kueh.

No excuses can be made for this and Su Mor Kong open rebuke is a wake up call to U Mer Mer. Even tho' U Mer Mer really forget about it !

Always write down the plan, and never let oneself be so forgetful. One forgetful event may cause inconvenient or one's life.

SMK met UMM parents

Su Mor Kong came to U Mer Mer's house and meet with parents ... yahooo ....

With 2 beautiful mirrors !!

NZ Part 4

The YHAs have kitchen facilities and we start to cook our own.

SMK quick meals were fantastic and delicious !! UMM loved them alot. We had button-mushrooms + scallops !! She called it fusion !!! .. hahahaha !!!!

Whatever she cooked, UMM really enjoyed them ... as long from SMK.

By the way, scallops in North Island is very much heaper than the South Island !! Dearer by NZ$3-4 !!

During the South Island, UMM took over a few times of cooking session from my beautiful chief cheft SMK ... hahahaha

UMM cooked fried rice, instant noodle and fried rice again .. hahahaha ...

Last, last chief cheft needs to come in when we want to eat something "exotic" .. hahaha.. She is still the best cheft !!

SMK would rationed the food supplies as she would with money and time .. hahahaha. Time & expenses planning are really important especially when we are in foreign lands.

UMM remembered when we were watching TV, SMK would said, "ok - off the TV and go to sleep" .. hahaha.

We woke up every morning at 7:00 am - washing up, preparing a quick breakfast and off we out searching for our schools and properities. And we got back to hostel around 6:30 pm or 7:00 pm. A full day + overtime job .. hahaha.

The Bible said that we ought to work deligently during the day as when the night falls, we can't work anymore as it had grown dark.

SMK realy pushing herself thru' alot. Being a mother, a father, a business woman, a friend, girlfriend - time is really precious and invaluable.

SMK had sacrificed alot inwhich a naked eyes won't see and understand. Her deep and hidden griefs + sorrows and endless and tireless effort to give the best gift to the kids and people around her - nobody would understand until you find yourselves in her position.

People whom don't understand her will feel that she is too stern. After being with SMK continuously for 14 days, UMM begins to have more and more exposure and indepth of her inner self.

Life is a journey that has traffic lights, junctions, rains, sunny - yet UMM + SMK shall walk + drive + fly thru' them together. God bless us.

New Zealand 1 to 14 2009 Part 3

Our car was stolen !!!

That was our morning coffee when we went to the YHA Auckland parking space.

After checking with the YHA service counter, our car was towed away because the parking is owned by YHA and we must informed them that we parked there, even as a guest.

So stupid !!!

We were not informed when we check in, the signboard that says "24 hours tow away" was covered with plants and grasses ! The visibility was impossible. And another thing, at the back of the car windscreen, there is a car rental sticker - meaning we are not locals.

We need to take a bus ourselves and paid NZ$200 (RM440) compound !! When asked who had instructed the tow away, they said P & C ... bullshit !!!

It was an expensive after-breakfast teabreak and lesson to pay. Now each time when we park at the YHA hostel, we ask ... hahahaha

This is definitely the YHA Auckland mistakes cos' the next day, they put up a new signboard ... very fast to improve or to cover up their backside !!

Anyway we can't do much except to readjust our budget but it really a pissed off thing.

New Zealand 1 to 14 2009 Part 2

Arrived at NZ International airport around 11:30 am NZ time (MAL 06:30 am). Need to readjust our time 4 hours forward.

Couldn't have much sleep on the flight but we did enjoyed the good service from MAS. During the flight, we thanked God that we managed to get seats where there was extra vacancy, so SMK able to lie and have some brief sleeps.

SMK lied her hear on my thigh and she is so adorable !!!

The NZ airport system was fantastic. We just need to goto a service counter and push a specified car rental phone number (for free) and they would just come to the airport and pick you up and send you to their office to collect the car.

With maps on our hands, we check into YHA Auckland. SMK is the one reading the map and remembering the route for the entire trips in NZ. UMM really bad with directions and bad recollection of the streets.

It does took a lot of heavy toil on her as she need to put on/off her spectacles inbetween and having to think and plan about the houses and schools at the same time.

Most of our displeasure was due to this matter. SMK gets frustrated and angry ... well ... who wouldn't be ??!!

UMM did try his best, checking into service desk and look at the map before each trip but .... GPS still bit off ... hahahaha ...

Soorryyy darling ...

New Zealand 1 to 14 2009 Part 01

Well this is it ! The trip that we been waiting for since we bought our tickets during 2009 MATTA Fair - RM2,550 per pax.

For SMK, things has been very hectic as she was away to Sabah prior to this trip and only managed to pack her stuffs after getting back on Friday noon, just 2 1/2 days before our NZ trip.

As we checking ourselves into the KLIA airport around 09:00 pm, SMK turned to me and said that she might come back earlier than UMM cos' she missed the kids.

SMK also don't understand why she made the "mistake or decision" in taking 14 days when she can do it in 7 days and this is the longest time she had been away from kids. "Love can make you do unrealistic things", SMK said.

UMM understood how she felt as UMM also had the same feeling when UMM about to enter Thailand border and while in ChiangMai kepts on calling and sms SMK.

Yes indeed ! Love can makes you climbed the highest mountain, leaped over tallest building, turned the world upside down, love also can make you feeling so lost. LOVE is so powerful !!

As she expressed her feeling, tears gushed out from her beautiful eyes and flow down to her soft and lofty cheeks.

Her love and sacrifices overwhelmed ... UMM was lost with words to say to SMK, except "Thank you".

Tummy a bit ..

Su Mor Kong and U Mer Mer having the same problem .. we can't bend over cos' our tummy grew a little bit bigger.

We have a bigh laughed at ourselves and we promise to reduce on July .... hahaha

Su Mor Kong met U Mer Mer mom face to face

Su Mor Kong sent U Mer Mer home to keep the ice cream in fridge. When we about to reach U Mer Mer's house, suddenly Su Mor Kong said, "send at your front gate". Usually, she will park at the corner.

Then more miracle happened, she asked,"just your mom at home? Just go in to say hi". Wow !!

Anyway, God is nice to her, my mom was just coming out from house, and they met outside face to face... hahaha.

Later, when U Mer Mer got back home, my brother and my sister in law said, "Aiyah ... missed, should come back early to meet U Mer Mer's girlfriend" .. hahaha.. How did they know ???

My mom felt so happy that she called and told them about Su Mor Kong's visit ... hahaha

disposable undies

Su Mor Kong and U Mer Mer preparing our NZ trip "supplies" and one of the "surprise" .. ooopss .. I meant "supply" that Su Mor Kong bought are disposable undies !!

Never seen one before, never wear one before ... so this gonna be U Mer Mer 1st time !!! Thought that I don't need to wear anything but now ... cehhh .. need to wear something .. hahaha

SMK big heart

As we were driving to attend a 7th anniversary dinner, Su Mor Kong said to me ... "When our project comm comes in, we shall organize and fully sponsor a "open Heaven" for all the Christians to come and received the same blessings that we have.

When she said that, I felt overwhelmed by her genorosity and her big heart to bless others.

That's what my Su Mor Kong really is. And I love her so much ....

Freedom

Told Su Mor Kong that I am going to have 5 days of freedom as she be away ... hahahaha .. Well, she bless my freedom and ask me to enjoy myself .. hehehe.

Well, it doesn't work, the moment I sent her back from lunch, I already missed her liao ... 5 days !!! ... how to survive without her ler and she without me .... hahaha..

Time together too short

Time does passes by very fast for me now. I felt much much shorter whenever I am with SU Mor Kong.

With her at 12:00 pm - finish our works together, went out for a meal, visit her mom and then went back home for wine which ended around 10 pm. All together 10 hours !! Hahhh ... ??!!! We've spent 10 hours together ?? Bluffing ??? It is real .... but how come I felt it was just a few minutes only ??

drain out

Getting out and kicking off to work was not easy this morning. Feeling my whole power been drained ... hahaha.

Su Mor Kong was having the same "drained out" like me .. hahaha.. We met for awhile before dismissing ourselves.

Wish there were two sundays .. hahaha

Mothers Day at inlaw

Members were curious and asked me why I did not join the church Mothers' Day lunch and being a faithful participant, I am not surprised with it.


For those who knows the relationship between Su Mor Kong and me, they would be able to grasp the reason.

The night at her mom place were filled with talking, eating and photo taking. They bought a beautiful jade for their mom and flowers and pandan cake and KFC and jelly cakes.

The most memorable time I had was when Su Mor Kong's mom asked to have a photo taken with me & Su Mor Kong with her !!!

Su Mor Kong + U Mer Mer enjoying the moment "together" in the midst of many. We sometimes used our eyes and gestures to send our "love" messages ... hahaha.

garlic = shirt off

After sending the maid to office, we got ourselves coconuts. The weather was really burning the atmosphere dry up ... hahaha.

Back to her place, enjoying the time cuddling and then Su Mor Kong said, "I smelled garlic, go and gaggle ... hahahaha"


U Mer Mer trying to find out whereabout the garlic smell came from, ahhh hahhhh ... from U Mer Mer shirt, so off the shirt !!! hahaha.. lucky for Su Mor Kong, not my pant, or else ... hahahaha ... more thrilling and exciting .. hahaha ...

Family X-Men

History has happened to us on this day - we went for cinema show together as whole family !!

1st time go as a family, U Mer Mer blundered a few:
1- buy tickets (3 adults 2 kids when it suppose to be 2 adults and 2 kids cos B sits on her lap)
2- didn't hold B hands when going up the stairs
3- buy pop corns must get 2 extra plastic bags to share the pop corns

O yah ... be ready to carry a bag filled with 4 water containers ... hahaha.

Really a family outing ... hahaha.

Melaka, couple shirt and supper with kids

Went to Melaka with Su Mor Kong and , also with her 2 BRS ppl. The journey was ok but I think we enjoy more when we are alone, no matter where we are and what we do ... hahaha

We sent her 2 friends for 30 minutes trishaw ride, hmmm ... Su Mor Kong said that should have give them an hour ride, come to think of it ... should have given them 4 hours ride .. hahaha.

We used that precious time to shop around. Su Mor Kong bought a set of 3 pcs tray and then we bought 2 pairs of round neck shirt - so beautiful and "couple" ... hahaha

Su Mor Kong bought 2 packets of honeycomb biscuit for my mom and 1 box + 1 container of plum for me to give to her mom on Mother's Day.

We were glad when we were able be back home to send the kids to kumon. Su Mor Kong used my car while I went to the shop to collect her car (repair and repaint due to a dent at Seri Kota Hospital).

After collecting her car, went to her place for porridge dinner while Su Mor Kong sent the kids to kumon and wrapped the dodol + plum.

Su Mor Kong pack the porridege + we went to pick up the kids and went to her mom place.

After visiting her mom, we went for fried chickens, char kueh-teow and drinks.

U Mer Mer could not imagine how Su Mor Kong gets all these energies from managing home to office and then to home again - very tiring ler ...

Instead of U Mer Mer been quarantined for flu, we met up, hugged and kissing each other endlessly !!!

Later U Mer Mer was sent to "babysit" .. hahaha while Su Mor Kong went to KLIA to pick up V + M.

During that "babysitting" time, U Mer Mer was having happy time with the kids ... hahaha

As night falls in, we had white wine at Su Mor Kong upper hall, enjoying ourselves. Oh yah ... before that, Su Mor Kong show me a very exciting open air bathroom design that really thrilled me .. hahaha..

We were discussing no:52, Su Mor Kong asked U Mer Mer to get the info and contact the owner to sell us at 320K.

(latest update: the next day, when Su Mor Kong called the agent, they are ready to sell at 320K, now U Mer Mer need to be an actor, try pretend not interested and reduce to 315K ... hahaha.

For the very 1st time, U Mer Mer was allow to stay up late, and the kids were ok with it.

UMM and SMK additional marriage vows

During our visit to medical centre, we managed o use the time to "paktoh" .. hahaha

We were talking about our marriage vows and want to add the following into it:

For hair or hairless,
For odorless or odorfull armpit
For good breathe or bad breathe
For snoring or not snoring ...

hahaha

ice cream and oreo in car and lots of kisses

We had our ice cream and oreo in car and countless kisses ... hahaha

U Mer Mer would reach out and take the sun shade and kissed Su Mor Kong .. and every little things as for her rewards and punishment in kisses .. hahaha That's how the kisses come ... hahaha

Eldest Sister Husband

U Mer Mer went to hospital to visit mom. Met Su Mor Kong's sister attending mom.

Then the treating doctor came and asked who is this U Mer Mer, Su Mor Kong's sister said, "He is my sister husband".

The doctor asked, "Which one?"

"Eldest lar" ... hahaha...

another together day and visit mom

Today we were together the whole day.

Settling from car to insurance to EPF matters to visiting mom.

O yah ... we walked up the staircases to the 8th floor !! Have to take a break at 5th floor .. hahaha.

During the hospital, mom was laughing when I told her that I am going to pray for her ... in rojak language .. hokkien and english ... hahaha

She knew that U Mer Mer can't pray in hokkien .... hahahaha..

Su Mor Kong was happy cos' this is the 1st time she saw mom laughed since been hospitalized.