Tuesday, March 31, 2009

fish spa and body massage

U Mer Mer arrived at Penang around 03:15 pm and met Su Mor Kong at ParkRoyal.

Suppose to go for her appointment but cancel at the last minute. Anyway, we went back to her rest house which is just beside the ParkRoyal ... so near.

The place is clean and very close to the beach. A lot of greenery and comfortable.

After a quick change, we went out looking for a thai massage called "butterfly". We stop by a massage shop and ask them where we could find a thai massage shop.

To our surprise, the thai massage here are hanky-panky and they wondered why a woman asked for such massage ... hahaha ... we didn't know such thing.

So we opt for local chinese massage. For pricing matter - I leave to our chieft negotiator .. Su Mor Kong !!

We got a very good bargain - RM50 per pax whichincludes 30 minutes fish spa & 30 minutes of body massage !!

For U Mer Mer, MUST be a male massager, NO female .. hahahaha...

1st time we experienced the fish spa, very tingling & geli .. hahaha

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

Together in seminar

Couldn't sit together with Su Mor Kong at the 1st session of the prayer seminar as U Mer Mer was taking care of the sound system.

But during the 2nd session, U Mer Mer made the effort of getting someone to take over and sat with Su Mor Kong.

Wow !!! Imagine the whole church seeing us sitting together and some more at the front row .. hahaha.

We are quite "open" and at peace with our relationship.

Breakfast

Had our wonderful breakfast together. We shared & laughed together. It was a very relaxing moment.

Monday, March 16, 2009

Dinner at home

Turned from jogging to dinner at Su Mor Kong's house as it was raining. We had "baby" o-kwee-tao, potato + meat and honey chicken.

During the meal, Sson shared his story and with lots of actions ... hahaha.

U Mer Mer told them that he ate (during younger days .. hahah) 7 pcs of KFC fried chickens and 3-4 packets of chicken rice at one go.

Sson broke U Mer Mer records - he ate 21 pcs of fried chicken & 7 packets of chicken rice !! And for Lyn - she is the "sushi queen" + "soup queen" ... hahahahaha...

Our conversation were playful & funny.

One thing U Mer Mer learned, no matter how so-so was the food, place, environment, etc - we must at all time appreciate the efforts that people put in.

I learned from Su Mor Kong.

cake

Su Mor Kong bought pandan layer cake for me.

She could not visit me earlier to check on my blood pressure test as she was too tired, anyway, U Mer Mer thanked her for the caring heart.

For some it is just a cake, but for U Mer Mer it is cares & love.

Saturday, March 14, 2009

We had our "bad moment" when U Mer Mer asked her about how to answer to a prospect question on how U Mer Mer linked to C.A.S.

U Mer Mer went to the hair saloon and talk with her and then pray together in the car.

Forward SMS

Show the mistaken sms from P.Wong to Su Mor Kong. U Mer Mer was irritated with it and wanted to give a big piece of U Mer Mer's mind to P.Wong, but Su Mor Kong stop me.

She said, "Just Forward the sms to the right ppl".

Why must we create more irritation to a ongoing problematic situation when we can help or assist?

Maybe because of U Mer Mer selfishness and self-centeredness that causes U Mer Mer to be angry over petty matters.

we are boyfriend and girlfriend

As we approach Rev Grace Kim (Mrs. David Cho Yonggi) to take photo with her, she asked who are we? What is our relationship.

We looked at each other and said, "couple", "boyfriend & girlfriend" .... in front of her camera crews, her assistants and a few of church members ....

wow !!! we were so daring !! hahahaha ..

I don't know whether it is a coincident or God's leading that Rev. Grace Kim chose to asked the question cos' when we asked her to pray for us earlier, she didn't ask that question.

Hmmmm .... is it an open proclamation of our faith ???

Friday, March 13, 2009

SMK - you are my miracle

Su Mor Kong said that God is doing a great miracle to U Mer Mer.

This was leading to the potential e-commerce prospect that will generate $40,000 into our bank account.

But U Mer Mer told her that our relationship is the greatest miracle. She is my miracle.

Matta Fair 2009

Got our NZ hostel & car settled.

Su Mor Kong bought 3D2N at Pangkor Resort and 3D2N at Eagle Ranch, P.D.

We nearly buy the Koh Samui package but since her timetable is not fix and the trip available only on Oct, we cancel the idea.

As usual, U Mer Mer went for the free 3D2N stays talks ... hahahaha...

Su Mor Kong always keeping church affairs on her mind. Since the packages are so cheap, she excitedly asked U Mer Mer to inform church camp committee about the good deals, and getting more info for the church sake.

Even U Mer Mer don't have such alertness or awareness. Su Mor Kong is a great person.

Thursday, March 5, 2009

Breakfast

Had healthy breakfast at Su Mor Kong's place twice + Sson.

We would pray together for food and read ODB. And share what we have read.

With Sson, we try to relate something teenager are going thru' or may face. Pray that we could have more breakfast + jogging. You know lar .. my darling Su Mor Kong has very tight schedule.

Not easy for her but U Mer Mer continues to pray and help whatever he can. Hmmm ... like pasar-ing .. hahaha.

Monday, March 2, 2009

This morning was our 1st day family jogging. And before that, U Mer Mer needs to do some "warm up" - go marketing .. hahaha..

U Mer Mer learned these:
1- Buy eggs, buy big tray
2- carrot is for garnish/decor only, don't need so much. Same as potato.
3- garlic (white) for dishes, black for soup related.
4- cabbage buy local type, softer and cheaper. Don't buy from China, too hard
5- cucumber buy the hard type
6- soy sauce buy po-po brand

Ooo ... before going for exercise, we had bananas and milo (for me) & plain water for Su Mor Kong + Sson. (Su Mor Kong read from an article-Japan).

We started our 1st day with brisk walking (not exercising for so loooong). U Mer Mer had a butt-on-ground while sliding down at the playground .. hahaha ...

Ended our exercise with dumbbell and twister. Wow ... not as easy as it looks .. hahaha.

Went back to Su Mor Kong's home, U Mer Mer + Sson + Kiki and while Suk Mor Kong reaching maid cooking.

Had lunch together after Belle is back from school. Then getting the kids and Su Mor Kong to mandi .. hahaha ...

Played Chinese Chess with Sson while waiting for the auntie to pick them.

Everyone were feeling at ease, cosy, peaceful and homely. Su Mor Kong later call U Mer Mer saying that she feel like not going to work and stay at home .. hahaha.. Well, U Mer Mer felt the same way too.


p/s ... we have a contest - every 1 kg dropped, will get RM5. Sson will be the judge. Hmmm .. U Mer Mer was wondering, this contest is to reduce or gain weight ? cos' immediately after our lunch, we all dip the short bread with coffee !!! hahaha..

Sunday, March 1, 2009

Missing her already ...

You know ... even though we just been away a few hours ago, U Mer Mer already missed her and just wanted to shout out loud "I LOVE YOU !!!!!" ... hahaha

Happy Birthday SMK 2009 - gifts

This time, U Mer Mer is smarter ... hahaha ... thanks to Su Mor Kong's "teaching" .. hahaha..

U Mer Mer gave Su Mor Kong gifts part by part and as the time and place permitted ....

1st - gave her the birthday card while driving to the Eastin (btw .. hi-tea there is no good).

2nd- gave her the 5 big stalks of sun flower as we left Eastin. Su Mor Kong was amazed by the size andthis is the 1st time she received sunflower as a gift ....

3rd - The most thrilling, excited, suspence gift of all ... in her office, before we do the "cha-cha" practice .. hahaha..

U Mer Mer asked Su Mor Kong to close her eyes, and with her hands, touch the 3 wrapped gifts on the table.

As she is touching the gifts, U Mer Mer would roughly "explained" the content ... hahaha. The 1st one was flat, the 2nd one has this "mountain" shape ... hahaha (I don't know what is in her mind at that time .. hahaha), and the 3rd one - smallest size and has triangle shape.
I asked her to choose which one she wants to try on 1st and she said she like the 3rd one but U Mer Mer insists the 1st one.

As U Mer Mer open the gift, she was bit nervous cos' a week ago as we went for a cinema show, we went to a lingerine shop .. hahaha.. actually it is a beige color female Cross Creek shirt.(not the sexy lingerine we saw ... hahaha).

Now for the 2nd gift, with her eyes closed, I led her hands and feel the "mountain" part .. purposely one .. hahaha ... U Mer Mer offered to put it on for her. As U Mer Mer opens the 2nd gift, U Mer Mer said, "this part is hard" .. Su Mor Kong gave a slap to my butt !!! Hahahaha..

Slowly U Mer Mer moves his hand behind her back as though trying to remove something. Su Mor Kong was feeling really nervous liao .. hahaha ... and then U Mer Mer put the "thing" on her head - it is the Cross Creek cap !! (not a bra hahahaha)

Hmmm now came the 3rd gift - something to do with the lower part of a body. I think by now both of us must be very "high" liao ...

U Mer Mer put his hands around her waist and butt and telling her that I am measuring gift size .. hahaha.

U Mer Mer carried her and put her down on the sofa, and gentlely lift up her feet and put on the Cross Creek socks !!! (not what you all imagine .. hahaha)

The whole process really bring her suspence and thrill .. hahaha. She can't imagine what this "blur-blur" U Mer Mer gonna do to her .. hahaha..

For U Mer Mer, Su Mor Kong IS THE LOVE of his life and shall never let her be hurt, in pain, in sorrow and unhappy.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY SU MOR KONG !!

Happy Birthday SMK 2009 - I love you

Today is my darling Su Mor Kong's birthday !!!

U Mer Mer had been waiting for today for so long !!

We went to Eastin and only the way there Su Mor Kong shared how the kids woke up t 6 am and prepared birthday omellette for her and she was so touched by their love. And while driving to Eastin, she received a sms birthday wish from Australia(later she told me), and her tears just rolled out.

U Mer Mer knows that she is loved by everyone whom knew her. How couldn't ? Su Mor Kong is the most wonderful person that anyone could wish for as a friend, partner, wife, daughter in law or mother in law (many mny years from now .. hahaha) ...

Su Mor Kong is wonderfully made by God to be loved, cherished and adored.

A few days ago, U Mer Mer said to God, "God ... now I know how much You love me. The "I miss you", "I want to be with you", "I want to cuddle you", "I just want to give my best to you" ..."

All these love that U Mer Mer flowing out to Su Mor Kong is what God is flowing into my life and Su Mor Kong's life.

The "wanting" and "desire" to be with each other are so strong hour by hour.