Sunday, November 30, 2008
Word from God
While waiting in line, U Mer Mer commits his future to God. And when it was U Mer Mer turn to be pray for, the pastor ask for my name, that's it ! and he said,
"I saw you as a pillar, a big pillar, just like a Roman pillar, to support the church and people." and then he turned to the Book of Jeremiah, "The LORD always think and thought of you .. peace and not evil. Give you hope & future !!"
Tears ran down as he said that words as it was my deepest concern at that moment.
Friday, November 28, 2008
Cameron Higlands
We left to our destination although several places were flooded due to heavy rains the nite before. We were afraid of landslide.
The nite before, we were talking on phone for hours cos UMM could not get back home due to the flooding. We were discussing alternative destination but last last could not think of any .. hahaha.. Su Mor Kong suggested meeting up tomorrow at 09:30 am.
Hmmm 1 1/2 hour lesser ler (original was 08:00 am) …. to be with each other …. Hahaha.
A new bright morning sun has risen, U Mer Mer had this kind of six-sense that we will be going to our original destination. Su Mor Kong sms, “meet at 08:30 am” . … yahoooo !!! So U Mer Mer dumped everything into the car and really don’t know where we be going. U Mer Mer doesn’t care … as long with Su Mor Kong – happy liao !!!
When U Mer Mer fetch her, she still didn’t tell U Mer Mer where to go. Only after awhile, she said, “Let’s go to Cameron Highlands” (our original destination) !!! Thank You Lord !!!
We went up using the new hill road. As we approaching the Kg. Raja, we stop by to buy strawberries. At the entrance to the strawberries farm, we were caught with amazement with such beautiful and large size sunflowers.
As we enter in, we decided to pluck our own strawberries. Su Mor Kong eyes were very sharp .. straight away zoom in and saw the biggest strawberry !!
We were like 2 young kids !! Running, laughing, hugging, pushing in the strawberry farm .. hahaha. At one time as U Mer Mer was walking in front, suddenly stop and told Su Mor Kong that there are 2 “tuah liap” (big biji) down there. But Su Mor Kong couldn’t see it cos’ block by this “tuah chia” (big size) U Mer Mer.
Su Mor Kong asked, where are that two “tuah liap” ?? Down there ? Where? … hahahaha we have a very BIG LAUGH !!!
We also pluck a strawberry shape like a love.
Su Mor Kong also very accurate about the weight of the strawberries – 500 grams.
A few metres away, we stop by to buy the strawberries capucino for U Mer Mer future sister in law .. hahaha .. for supporting our relation & trip .. hahaha.
We tried the strawberry strudel and ice creams.
We reached the Boh Tea plantation to enjoy our chocolate fountain + strawberries + jambu air + sweet corn.
We used spoon to scoop the chocolate from the bowl but later we throw away the spoon and use biscuit to dig the chocolate + corn – very delicious!!
The time seemed to fly by so fast !! It was time to headed back home liao !!
We not yet even reached the Cameron mid-peak yet but now we need to go back liao …
That’s why people said that when you are in love, time not enough to use ler !! Hahaha How true.
On our way back, Su Mor Kong gave U Mer Mer some advice about providing family security and encourage U Mer Mer and gave words of support. Concerning of looking for a salary-paid job.
Thursday, November 27, 2008
waterfall and chocolate coating
After our lunch, U Mer Mer told Su Mor Kong to wear short pant for tomorrow trip and she also have the same intention on me.
The reason as she also intended ... go to the waterfall !! U Mer Mer told her that he got another surprise plan but won't let her know about it for now ... hahahaha..
After talking about buying strawberry tea, she said, "Why not we have chocolate-dipping?" !!!
Very kau-lat !! That was my intention too. U Mer Mer thought of buying a chocolate bar and .... smack it into the fruits !!!
Did Su Mor Kong heard me when I was thinking and dreaming in my sleep ??? Hahaha ...
Morning "miracles" not yet over, now come another 2 more ......
Marriage Guide Book
When Su Mor Kong called me, she asked me to get 2 copies of the "Marriage Guide" booklet directly from the person in charge and we can do the sharing during our trip.
You know what ??!! When I call him, he was away in "A-Formosa" Melaka for a camp !! Wat lau .. how to get the book ler as we are leaving tomorrow morning?
He said that all the books are in P.J office. U Mer Mer asked whether I could get it from his office or other places ? He said that all his collegue are away at the same camp ! Nobody in the office.
But the good news is that the camp ends today and he is coming back by 4 pm today !!! And the best part is .... he has one copy of the book which he brought to the Melaka camp and he is gladly to give me by today !!!
God prepared the book for us. If he has not brought a copy of the book as a sample and if the camp didn't ends today and if I would have call him much later (he might off his handphone or gave the book to someone else) - I don't think we could have it !!
U Mer Mer really don't know what to say liao ... except "Praise God for HIS goodness & blessings.
Su Mor Kong & God's timing are always very accurate !! Even down to the very last seconds.
p/s. These few weeks - alots of bleesing & miracles have been happening to us. Believe in prayer cos' U Mer Mer has been praying alot for our relationship, church, family, children, ministry.
Morning Devotion - phone call
Normally I would just stop and do other things but this morning, an urge to move the morning devotion to my own room and let my niece use my brother's room.
After awhile, my room's phone rings. It was a call from Su Mor Kong. Talk about timing ! She didn't call my handphone which I left in my brother's room.
I also don't know why she didn't call my handphone but instead chose to call my room telephone number. Usually she would call my handphone .. hahaha. So amazing !!
If U Mer Mer didn't moved to own room, I would have missed her call cos' my room telephone ringing tone was very soft.
God moves even in small but important moment like these.
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
Housekeeping - car porch
One hand holding the water hose & the other hand scrubbing the floor with a broom. A bit of "lost orientation" at first ... hahaha ... Su Mor Kong must be laughing or "goyang" her head seeing this blur-2 U Mer Mer doing the cleaning .. hahaha.
Next stop .. hanging the clothings. Do you know that to keep the clothes color & fabric last longer, you need to hang the clothes inside out ? You don't know ler ??? Well ... join the club !! Me too .. hahahaha...
Keeping a good housekeeping is not easy and very time consuming. Now I know - I will and must share the housekeeping with Su Mor Kong at all time.
Love is .... doing things together or do it alone when your partner is too tired ... hehehe..
Monday, November 24, 2008
Love tank on right day
Wat lau ... really don't know what to do .... so as usual U Mer Mer quickly pray lor .. hahaha..
A few hours later, Su Mor Kong called that the 1st monkey outing was cancelled and as quick as lightning ... U Mer Mer asked Su Mor Kong whether we can go on Friday or not?
The answer ........ is ...... YES !!!
U Mer Mer really felt relieft and thankfulness cos' God really intervened in this matter.
Now to pray that both of us have no jobs or tasks that required our immediate attention & the 3 little monkeys are well taken care of, or else go also not peaceful.
Sunday, November 23, 2008
wine at POS
We met again for wine under the rain .... Su Mor Kong asked U Mer Mer whether wants to take off his shirt cos' it is wet, jokingly U Mer Mer said, "my pant more wet" !!!
At the end, didn't take off any ...... hahaha !!!
NZ meals and vision
It is a blessing in disguised cos' we were able to have time alone together .... yahoooooo !!!!
We went for our lunch ....
Su Mor Kong shared about her vision of the kids tying-knots with uncle Y's kids !! Hahaha ... meaning more mee-hoon-kuehing session till very old age liao lar !!! hahaha..
btw ... order the seafood set ... very nice !!
Love Tank
Yesterday nite when Su Mor Kong called me about how unnatural I am with the little monkeys, although improved a bit ... hahaha...
U Mer Mer asked God on how to deal with this matter. I just walk over to my study table and grab a book from the shelf. I don't really don't paying much attention to the book title. Just need something to read.
While lying down, I just flipped to the middle page and wow ... it talks about the love language love tank for kids !! What an appropriate title and timing !!
This morning before going to church, Su Mor Kong called me about the "trip", U Mer Mer gentlely suggested whether or not we could go ... just the two of us for this time. She said, "Yes - U Mer Mer's love tank need to be fill up 1st" ..
Wow ... talk about coincident !! Both of us having the "love tank" subject in our mind !!!
Thursday, November 20, 2008
10-10-10
She asked me to guess what it means. Wow .... very difficult lar, is it a barcode, food type, places we went ... ???
Ahh haaaahh !!!!
Dream does come true
Later around 12:40 pm, received a SMS from Su Mor Kong that she is going to kidnap me to Cameron Highlands next week !!!
AMAZING & MIRACLE !!!
U Mer Mer really cannot believe it !! We have the same desire and wishes at the same day ...
It just like the SMS + phone call ....
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
sms and call
Amazing ! Astounding ! Incredible !! ... that what U Mer Mer can expresses !!
It happens many time, only this time I have the opportunity & wisdom to capture it … hahaha..
Even though we are not together side-by-side, our mind, soul, spirit and heart seemed to be in synchronizing with each other. Knowing at that right moment - we are thinking of each other .. hahaha ..

Notice the time of her call and my SMS time ? Exactly the same !!! WOW !!!
There have been many, many occasions that these split-seconds moments happened. It just happened last week afternoon.
Yesterday it happened again but at night !! Whether day or night – it doesn’t matters … hahaha.
Maybe we are too in love and miss each other that even a short moment of being away seemed too much & too long … hahaha..
U Mer Mer felt that when we travel together, the road seemed to be getting shorter and shorter ! So fast we reached the destination.
U Mer Mer at times drove below the speed limits but still it seemed our travelling time is still too short.
Apa lar !!! Hahaha
Monday, November 17, 2008
Bullet Proof U Mer Mer
How not to be outburst when you got so many things on your mind & things to do and suddenly you get to know some nonsense news about a certain matter ?? Even U Mer Mer will response the same way too, maybe more kau lat !! ... hahaha..
U Mer Mer told Su Mor Kong that she can express her anger, hi + lo tone, frustrations, complaints, rebukes, remorse, dissatisfaction ... dan lain-lain lagi .. to U Mer Mer .... hahaha. Better to "shoots her bullets" to me & let U Mer Mer deal with the matters at hand calmly.
U Mer Mer told Su Mor Kong that U Mer Mer is liken a bullet proof vest that God sent into her life to withstands her "bullets" without Su Mor Kong getting hurt or in harm ... hahaha

Hmmm ... the above bullet proof vest is not applicable in Su Mor Kong situation as her "bullets" shoot from all angles .... hahaha ... so the below vest is more applicable ... hahahaha

Su Mor Kong ... though at times the "bullets" did "scratch" through the vest, it is hurtful & painful ... Love shall overcomes them .... don't worry.
The strength that the LORD has given to U Mer Mer will carry Su Mor Kong through ....
with love & purity always,
U Mer Mer
Sunday, November 16, 2008
Saturday, November 15, 2008
mothers birthday
What a story to share about our mothers' birthday. Nobody will going to believe it but it is the truth and without prior planning.U Mer Mer's mom suppose to celebrate her birthday on 8/11 but my brother had a wedding dinner to attend so we postponed to 15/11.
U Mer Mer casually told Su Mor Kong about it a few days later and she said that her mom also will be celebrating her birthday on that same day too !!!! Wat lau !!
So when the CG called her, she gave the reason on why she can't go and for me, I already informed the CG a few days earlier.
Well ... the truth is ... we are celebrating OUR mothers birthday ... at different place, at different family ... hahaha !!!
Not convince yet ??? !!! I can't help you ler .. hahaha
Su Mor Kong offered to buy the jelly cake for my mom .... thank you !!!
btw ... 3 kg = RM150 !!
Expensive but very unique & special !!!
UMM and SMK clay day
Most probably after Christmas cos CNY will be very busy for her liao ...
Ideas:
- UMM + SMK hugging
- UMM carrying SMK (piggy ride)
- UMM flower pot
- SMK pencil box
- UMM + SMK pencil box
- UMM clothe hanger
Hmmmm .. the list will go on & on as time approaches .. hahaha
Jelly Cake
Hmmm ... am I seeing doubles ???No ... there are 2 identical special made Jelly Cakes !! Our moms birthday cakes .... One for her & one for me .. confused ???!! Hahaha ...
Our things are so coincident, actually many times liao ... our moms celebrate birthday on the same day but different places ...
Really a very special & "loving" cakes bought by special person. Thank you Su Mor Kong ..
Ayam Rendang and Ayam Merah
U Mer Mer offer to learn up. Su Mor Kong likes to have the rendang cooked for her 2009 birthday and only the chicken drum sticks & breast parts ... and for 4 persons.
Yes .... my dear.
U Mer Mer will remember it and will cook it with passion & joyfully & love.
Charcoal Tuna Bun
We realized that what we eat, drink or do - always taste great cos' we shared them together. Even just eating a simple fruits for lunch brought joy, laughter & memory to us.
It is who you with & share your life with are more important than anything else.
Toothpick
Hug u and pray with u 4ever
She easily get "uncomfortable" and wants things to be fast-fast-fast.
Too many things to handle by herself, really is tough.
U Mer Mer continued to pray and asking God to fast-fast-fast pour HIS grace, strength, love & wisdom to her.
Around evening, Su Mor Kong was feeling much better. Tasks are still around but now Su Mor Kong got extra power to overcome them.
Su Mor Kong .... you are a great person !!! Nobody can do like what you did !!! God loves you & the whole wide world of people love you ..... and .... U Mer Mer shall loves you more & more till we are very-very-very old age.
At times, your actions may be consider demanding, U Mer Mer will not judge or pull you down - but continue to be by your side, praying and at times ... hugging you tightly without letting you go ... hahaha.. This is my promise to you.
Friday, November 14, 2008
Bible study
U Mer Mer feel very happy & glad that Su Mor Kong has committed herself in the Bible study and now when U Mer Mer is not there, she would send a reminder.btw... was finalizing some Carnival matters & then saw the monkeys downstair. So decided to stayed with them.
Su Mor Kong later gave U Mer Mer Bible tuition class .... hahaha


