Sunday, November 9, 2008

Marriage CG

Joined the Chinese "Marriage CG" and there were 9 couples & 1 "abnormal" normal couple .. hahaha..

Some of the sharing:

1) Do not say that this one is meant for you but willingly to act upon ourself.
2) Do not put down your partner
3) Do not compare your partner/spouse with others
4) Nothing go out from the 4 walls - let it be confidential
5) Build our house/relationship on solid rock, not shifting sand.
6)
"servanthood" - helping your wife with some of the chores, even if you are tired and busy, like cooking, washing plates, etc.
7) Share Biblical teaching/Spiritual well being and church ministry with your spouse and family.

Hmmm .. looking back, Su Mor Kong & U Mer Mer done all of them. Even this afternoon as we were about to start our works in office - we sang and pray together.

Su Mor Kong taught U Mer Mer how to steam fishs, cook vegetables, steam tofu .. hahaha ..

Washing dishes, mopping floors, clean up toilets ... and later level ... washing clothes together ... hahaha..

Everything that happened, happened at the right time and at the right place. Even coming for this CG also.

If Su Mor Kong had came last week, it be awkward for U Mer Mer to join them.

So happenned that U Mer Mer ask the host about leaflet changes 2 days ago, or else I have no excuses to go to the host house to "view & help" with the leaflet .. hahaha

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